“The Heartbeat of Home: Honoring the Sweetest Mum❤️”

“In loving memory of a cherished mother, whose kindness, wisdom, and boundless love illuminated our lives. She will forever remain in our hearts.

I truly can not express my pain and grief with your going, I have always wanted to bring the world to your feet for accommodating my multiple nuances.

Mummykus is a name I normally use and formed part of our family literature, I tend to add darling when I want to get something from you or borrow from you which in most cases I never return, slow to anger but always swift to come to my defense and protection, as I hold my pen with a shaking hand to write these few words of mine, my eyes swell up in tears flowing ceaselessly because of the sweetest and fondest of memories I have; and those that will remain uncreated, you can’t see them, you cannot see my feelings.
Who should I turn to now that you’re gone? Who do I turn to listen to my silly jokes? who should I call when I need to hear a motherly soothing voice to tell me that all is and will be well?

How do I fill the deepened valley in my heart that is full of nails and spikes created by your departure and causing my heart to bleed profusely, who do I cry to for help?…

All these questions…no single answer!

Daddy left…leaving me as your husband and son, you joined me on that tumultuous road immediately after his passing away, providing care, love, attention, mindfulness, and protection, I never saw a tear from your eyes because you wanted to be strong for me and my siblings. You did an excellent Job!

From Chi-boy…to Chijioke.…to Chi-man, your wings of love spread all around me.

The kids will miss you terribly… they cry occasionally, most of the beautiful clothes you bought for them remain unpacked as they find it difficult to open their gifts of love from Grandma!

We talk about you daily, we pray with you in our hearts…your song…’Oh lord, deliver souls…Oh lord, deliver souls…You’re able! You’re able!! You’re able!!!, a sweet melody that melts even the hardest of hearts remains fresh on their lips.

I do not mourn as if I lack faith which is quite frankly the opposite, I weep because my plans for you and I have been shattered.

In pain, I celebrate you, Mum, I bless God Almighty for bringing me into this world through you and having the best of life in every sense of it I want you to know that I fought hard for you, I prayed even harder for you and I will always love you oh mummykus!

Even in sickness and death, you still pulled your weight and brought people together in prayer, love, and Unity, ‘family’ was your watchword.
You have gone to be with our maker, and I know the kind of commotion that will be going on with our Mother Mary and Master Jesus, all the heavenly angels in full jubilation.

God help me!

Death leaves a heartache no one can heal…Love leaves a memory no one can steal…Forgetting you, never Mummykus….

You live on in our memories…

May your beautiful Soul Rest In Perfect Peace!

Amen!