JOY CHIDOBEM | Nneka Chidobem Ude | Favorites https://joychidobem.com/members/nnekau/activity/favorites/ Activity feed of Nneka Chidobem Ude's favorites. Fri, 05 Dec 2025 05:07:26 +0000 https://buddypress.org/?v= en-US 30 hourly 2 ca3322d4115a9c881f05959391ba1def TRIBUTE TO MY BELOVED COUSIN - NKECHI The Scripture reminds us of the brevity of life, describing our life as a vapor, its span as a hand breadth, its strength as fragile, and its expectancy as three scores and ten years. Like a lightening jolt, this stark reality hit us mercilessly with regards to my beloved cousin Joy Nkechi Chidobem. We are still in shock, having spoken to her shortly before her demise. When she developed this strange cough some months ago, none of us saw it as a life threatening ailment. Her children abroad insisted on a thorough medical checkup, the results of which gave us grave concerns. We stormed heaven with our prayers for healing, asking God to heal her promptly and spare her life. Chain prayers were offered for her, but it appears God wanted her home, having served Him and mankind very well. Nkechi was as bold as a lion, but also as humble as a dove. She was honest, straightforward, given to service, and religiously devotional. She was indeed our family's "nnukwu Ada" who played that role very soldierly. She also had an outreach ministry, feeding poor and indigent folks. We praise God that she remained faithful to our Lord Jesus Christ till the end. We now pray our Heavenly Father to comfort all her loved ones, especially Ezinne, her 97 years old mother, the children, who are now without father and mother, and us all her siblings. May God grant all the comfort, grace, and fortitude to bear the painful loss, in Jesus's name. AMEN The Very Rev'd Prof. Chinedu Nebo, CON, NPOM, FNSE, FNMS, FMSN, FNIPE, FNATE, FNAEng, FNIMMM. Former Nigeria's Minister of Power, Former Vice Chancellor of UNN and FUOYE, Currently, Vice Chancellor, University on the Niger https://joychidobem.com/activity/p/71/ Mon, 18 Mar 2024 21:27:09 +0000

TRIBUTE TO MY BELOVED COUSIN – NKECHI

The Scripture reminds us of the brevity of life, describing our life as a vapor, its span as a hand breadth, its strength as fragile, and its expectancy as three scores and ten years. Like a lightening jolt, this stark reality hit us mercilessly with regards to my beloved cousin Joy Nkechi Chidobem. We are…Read More

]]> 0 bb24562a8b4bbc64cd937fb01701bbd6 Grandma Joy truly lived up to her name and more. She was a light to not only her family, but to everyone around her. No matter the situation Grandma was always strong, joyous, and confident that the Grace of God was upon everything that she did, and It was. Grandma was my inspiration to remain strong in my faith as she had and always encouraged me to live up to my middle name, her namesake, Joy. I will gravely miss all of the laughter that we had shared, especially while making chin-chin, our dances, and our songs. I will especially miss the walks and exercises we did and the talks we had while doing them but I am grateful to God that I have the blessing of these memories to cherish forever. I miss you so, so much Grandma but I know that you are dancing and singing pain-free with our Lord!! I love you eternally Grandma💗💗💗 https://joychidobem.com/activity/p/69/ Sun, 17 Mar 2024 18:44:18 +0000

Grandma Joy truly lived up to her name and more. She was a light to not only her family, but to everyone around her. No matter the situation Grandma was always strong, joyous, and confident that the Grace of God was upon everything that she did, and It was. Grandma was my inspiration to remain strong in my faith as she had and always encouraged me…Read More

]]> 0 99dadba9730b2335dbe4a76fca08d826 In loving memory of our dear Aunty Mommy Joy Nkechi Chidobem In loving memory of our beloved Mommy Joy Chidobem. You always brought warmth, love, joy, and laughter into every moment shared with you. Your kindness knew no bounds, and your gentle spirit brought joy and love to everyone you encountered. Memories of your infectious laughter and comforting hugs will forever be cherished, a timeless reminder of the love you showered unconditionally. Though you may have bid farewell to this world, your spirit lives on in the countless lives you touched, leaving behind a legacy of love and compassion that will endure through generations. As we mourn your loss, we find solace in the memories we shared, knowing that you will always remain a cherished presence in our hearts. Until we meet again, we carry your memory with us. Rest peacefully, dear Aunty, knowing that your love has left an indelible mark in our hearts. Lots of love, Arinze and Chinenye Nebo Ikeme and Family https://joychidobem.com/activity/p/53/ Wed, 13 Mar 2024 13:46:45 +0000

In loving memory of our dear Aunty Mommy Joy Nkechi Chidobem

In loving memory of our beloved Mommy Joy Chidobem. You always brought warmth, love, joy, and laughter into every moment shared with you. Your kindness knew no bounds, and your gentle spirit brought joy and love to everyone you encountered.

Memories of your infectious laughter and…Read More
]]> 0 20ccf8e6dbe525a60843552a282dcb14 Epitome of Womanhood After losing my mum at an early age, I have been extremely fortunate and seemingly privileged to have had Grandma as my mother. As her daughter-in-law, the kids and I are always eager to be in her presence, she has the personality of a complete woman worthy of emulation, she is fierce in loving, kind in heart, and strong in the practice of her faith. She is the mother I never had, and I always wanted. The painful news of her passing away in the early hours of that Sunday morning of her birthday has left me devastated and in extreme grief. My family struggles with the reality of her absence daily. Grandma is always very lovely, and there was never a dull moment with her, She always wanted to solve issues, she was truly a problem-solver, always trying to solve people's problems, and I can’t place the source of her energy because she hardly eats, hardly sleeps, but was very active and strong, physically present and involved in all the same places I also found myself to be. Like the biblical shepherd, she always protected her sheep, gathering them from far and wide, and calling them home. With clarity, I remember whenever I called her, her soft and gentle voice would ask first; May...is there any problem? that's the 1st thing she would say, asking more questions about my well-being, the kids' growth, and my overall care, anxious to solve people’s problems; to her, discussing her own problems was so typically unheard of. She goes shopping and buys things for me and the family, sends money to me unannounced, buying the kids beautiful clothes, and toys. She doesn’t share the nature of a typical Nigerian mother-in-law, she is very loving, caring, supporting, and beautifully multi-talented. Grandma never waits for me to call her, and she always responds anytime I call her, but whenever she calls, she would never complain a single word! She has an enormous heart, cooking and feeding people she doesn't even know in her neighborhood with her great family's delightful recipes, everyone around her always had something to eat and drink. Whenever money is sent to her to cater for her expenses and needs; she looks for others to uplift intentionally and gives them the money. Grandma dislikes to see anybody suffer or lack anything as long as there is something she can do about it, more often than not, she would borrow from people who had and give to people who didn’t have! She would always go the extra mile for them. She prays a lot and is a prayer warrior, having a special dedication and love to her Lord and Saviour, as well as to the Marian movement of our Virgin Mother Mary, she prays for everyone around her, offering decades of the Holy Rosary to people she has contacts with, family, friends and loved ones; most times forgets to pray for even herself, grandma taught me that there is always a good reward serving God. I could go on endlessly sharing the good memories of the beautiful relationship we had, the happy moments, and her comforting smiles, she never gets angry for any reason. Grandma, I love you so much and you will always be in my heart. I pray for you and live by the lessons you taught. I miss you!!! Love May Chidobem https://joychidobem.com/activity/p/51/ Tue, 12 Mar 2024 21:30:09 +0000

Epitome of Womanhood
After losing my mum at an early age, I have been extremely fortunate and seemingly privileged to have had Grandma as my mother.
As her daughter-in-law, the kids and I are always eager to be in her presence, she has the personality of a complete woman worthy of emulation, she is fierce in loving, kind in heart, and strong in…Read More

]]> 0 1079ecfd23b5d1c8f4f40868e8a8b96c Grandma, I don't even know what to say. There are so many things you were supposed to be around for and it kills me to know you won't be there. I think of you everyday and all the memories we have. I wish there were more everyday. I wish there would be a time in the year I would look forward to, knowing you were coming to visit. Grams, there are too many words to describe you but I know for one, beautiful. I know I can speak for my siblings when I say we enjoyed your presence like no other. I miss the dancing, laughing, and singing with you. Playing loud nigerian music and doing your little 2 step dance. Not a day goes by without me thinking of you or a night that I don't pray about you. You were my special grams and I was your baby chimaks. No one loved me the way you did grandma and that will leave a hole that can never be filled. I am so sorry to your family and your children grandma and I wish I could just make everything better for everyone. You were so funny, loving, understanding, compassionate, and so much more. I still cannot believe you are not here anymore. That I won't see you for Christmas, or Thanksgiving, or the summer before each school year. I will forever cherish those times grams. I will miss cooking for you, and turning the tv to EWTN, and cleaning my room for you. You always showed your appreciation and happiness for when I would do something as little as cooking or cleaning. I miss many things about you grandma that can't even be put into words. Lord knows I will miss and love you forever.❤️ Chiamaka https://joychidobem.com/activity/p/47/ Tue, 12 Mar 2024 21:22:41 +0000

Grandma, I don’t even know what to say. There are so many things you were supposed to be around for and it kills me to know you won’t be there. I think of you everyday and all the memories we have. I wish there were more everyday. I wish there would be a time in the year I would look forward to, knowing you were coming to visit. Grams, there are…Read More

]]> 0 bfe8a356f33b908ab3b4faa07039f65a TRIBUTE TO OUR ICON – BIG MAMA We call her Big Mama or Momsy depending on the mood in the house.  My first encounter with Big Mama was during our journey to becoming family: the solemnization of Mary Friday and Chijioke Chidobem.  It was a relief and noteworthy that our daughter was marrying into a decent Igbo Christian home. I will share two significant exemplary encounters of who Big Mama was to us (Lady Joy Nkechi Agatha Chidobem)  As the Eldest and the Mother Representative in my home. I was unable to make the traditional wedding held in our ancestral home. It is cultural to send representatives, in-laws, and siblings. The feedback I received was pleasant. Everyone attested to the fact that she welcomed our daughter with exotic joy, receiving her into her home while glorifying the entire family. Not many women are capable of doing this. I would also like to acknowledge that this is a testament to our in-laws. The reception and warmth we received on the day of the wedding is the same till date.  We are honored to be a part of such beautiful people, rich in culture and etiquette. Thank you all for the peace and honor shared between both our homes.  For most mothers-in-law, there is always “drama” and a signature undertone of subtle conflict, especially during wedding ceremonies and Omugwo. Momsy was always classy, and she carried herself with great panache and a dignified demeanor dignifiable of a lady. During the white wedding, she bought and sent me my orange-coloured traditional aso-ebi, a gesture I will never forget. The only thing left was to take me to a couture designer to fabricate my dress.  Big Mama was always full of surprises. She never accommodated dull moments, and her admiration for art, language, and culture perhaps gave her a deeper essence to live life to the fullest. Her presence brought joy, and she embodied peaceful living.  It was a thrill to have Big Mama over during the Omugwo of our first grandchild, Tonia Chidobem. I love how she loves the grandkids and all of us around her. she spends quality time, she is always in the moment, savouring and enjoying every conversation with everyone. Big Mama was never afraid to lead or proffer solutions to challenges. She took challenges head-on. I feel pained that we didn’t get the opportunity to fully celebrate our ICON. She was a good example of what a true mother and mother-in-law should be. Perhaps, it’s important to pause and reflect on the fact that we should all live more intentionally, checking up on one another.   I will miss Momsy, I will miss some good cooking and lovely engaging conversations, I will miss her perspective on issues, and the ice cream trips. Indeed, I will miss all the blessings of home.  Adieu! Sweet Mother! We may have lost you in the physical, but your legacies, teachings, and presence are here with us.  We feel blessed knowing that Heaven has gained yet another angel. Thank you for your leadership and bold perspective, always guiding us with light and love.  You will be greatly missed! We love you, Big Mama!  May your gentle soul continue to rest in the bosom of the Lord! Amen!!! Pharm. Princess Uduak Ndubuisi For: The Friday Edem Family https://joychidobem.com/activity/p/46/ Tue, 12 Mar 2024 21:21:15 +0000

TRIBUTE TO OUR ICON – BIG MAMA
We call her Big Mama or Momsy depending on the mood in the house. 
My first encounter with Big Mama was during our journey to becoming family: the solemnization of Mary Friday and Chijioke Chidobem. 
It was a relief and noteworthy that our daughter was marrying into a decent Igbo Christian home.
I will share two…Read More

]]> 0 609d5745c98a503a13be452552a700c0 A tribute to my darling Aunty Joy! I want to share a story about my aunty Joy, that some of you may not know. She was the first aunty of mine to marry one of my uncles, Uncle Sylva who we all called uncle Supac. My mom being his older sister, so of course I was one of her flower girls at their wedding along with her sister Nkiru Chime. She made an impression on me, my aunty Joy was aways dressed very fashionably back then in the 1970’s and I thought of her as my ‘modern’ aunty. Aunty Joy as we would say marammma nwanyi, was a beautiful, tall, classy and deeply spiritual woman, known for her outgoing and cheerful personality and her devotion to her Christian faith. She was the life of the party, and whenever she showed up at our family gatherings, you will know that she had arrived. Aunty Joy was a natural organizer always taking care of everyone. My mother, Nono Nwakego Grace Ejike (Nee Chidobem), her sister-in-law, affectionately called her “Joy Lady.” My late father, Chiweyite Aguowulu Ejike, her brother-in-law, shared a special nickname with her, showing the close bond they shared. Aunty Joy was always preoccupied with the well-being of others, especially my late uncle Supac, whom she lovingly cared for. I believe that God is now taking care of her in eternal life, and she continues to be a guiding angel for her beloved children and us here on earth. Aunty Joy’s beautiful soul was like a whirlwind, bringing joy and happiness to all who knew her. May her gentle soul rest in peace with Uncle Supac until we meet again. Nene Ne-emelie Ejike-Ogwara https://joychidobem.com/activity/p/45/ Tue, 12 Mar 2024 21:16:26 +0000

A tribute to my darling Aunty Joy!

I want to share a story about my aunty Joy, that some of you may not know. She was the first aunty of mine to marry one of my uncles, Uncle Sylva who we all called uncle Supac. My mom being his older sister, so of course I was one of her flower girls at their wedding along with her sister Nkiru Chime. She made…Read More

]]> 0 bf8db4fdbac12227d8d1a9b9c4d73ed1 Tribute to Joy Nkechi Agatha Chidobem by Chimdi Chime (Niece) Joy Nkechi Agatha Chidobem or as I call her, aunty Lagos was the eldest sister to my father Chika O. Chime and, to me, a wonderful aunty. Aunty Lagos was a light you wanted to cling unto, she always brought vibrance and a positive uplifting energy whenever she walked into a room. She inspired me in so many ways, to be the love you wanted to receive, to be compassionate and to live an intentional and dedicated life to God and to the work you’ve set out to do. She supported me in everything I did, even when distance was a barrier, I was reminded that she always kept tabs on me and was rooting for me. I have no doubt she continues to do so now that she is with the Lord. That’s the woman she was, an exceptional mother, an incredible aunt and ever loving and supportive sister a phenomenal grandmother, a gift to humanity now and forever. I’m blessed to have had a precious aunt such as herself. https://joychidobem.com/activity/p/43/ Tue, 12 Mar 2024 21:14:56 +0000

Tribute to Joy Nkechi Agatha Chidobem by Chimdi Chime (Niece)
Joy Nkechi Agatha Chidobem or as I call her, aunty Lagos was the eldest sister to my father Chika O. Chime and, to me, a wonderful aunty. Aunty Lagos was a light you wanted to cling unto, she always brought vibrance and a positive uplifting energy whenever she walked into a room. She…Read More

]]> 0 7e83b08297c12e2e4520353669546394 My Tribute to My Dear Aunty Lagos From Pearl Chime https://joychidobem.com/activity/p/41/ Tue, 12 Mar 2024 21:08:44 +0000

My Tribute to My Dear Aunty Lagos

From
Pearl Chime

]]> 0 6cb7e93e47507f92d6079d2e7f6e7dda One of the most thoughtful, strong and resilient people I know, she inspired me to stay motivated in the things I love. She was not one to believe in the idea of giving up and rarely ever lost faith in herself other people or God and that was what made her so special. Some of my favorite memories with her happened recently as over the summer, I would I take her to church multiple times during the week and I enjoyed the talks we had on the way there and back https://joychidobem.com/activity/p/39/ Tue, 12 Mar 2024 16:25:54 +0000

One of the most thoughtful, strong and resilient people I know, she inspired me to stay motivated in the things I love.
She was not one to believe in the idea of giving up and rarely ever lost faith in herself other people or God and that was what made her so special. Some of my favorite memories with her happened recently as over the summer,…Read More

]]> 0 be4a1b2917a19ad7a35309b3810dd5ac You know I never knew Aunty's name....Aunty Joy! What a fitting name for a joyful lady! Growing up I came to your house for years, i lived down the road on Ogunlana drive and i remember i always felt welcomed when ever i visited. I felt peaceful when ever i was at your home. Blessed memories of you and all the kids, i was always smiling when i witnesses your interactions with Nneka and her siblings. You have left a beautiful legacy behind, i hope you know you left an imprint in the hearts of all you came in contact with. Rest well Aunty 💜 https://joychidobem.com/activity/p/35/ Mon, 11 Mar 2024 23:28:23 +0000

You know I never knew Aunty’s name….Aunty Joy! What a fitting name for a joyful lady! Growing up I came to your house for years, i lived down the road on Ogunlana drive and i remember i always felt welcomed when ever i visited. I felt peaceful when ever i was at your home. Blessed memories of you and all the kids, i was always smiling when i…Read More

]]> 0 26d4ac8e919e390098cb8cf7c7e6cd59 EULOGY TO A CHAIR LEADER MUMMY JOY NKECHI AGATHA CHIDOBEM It is with heavy heart that I pen down this eulogy to a wonderful woman. A woman of excellence, a dear sister, friend and chair leader Auntie Nkechi Joy Chidobem. You were a woman of substance, intellect, insightful, articulate, organized, of kind disposition, friendly and a go getter. You were always on the move, active, effective and never left what can be done now for a minute longer. Impossibility is not in your lexicon. Your presence and approach to issues has profound effects and inspires confidence and winning spirit among your siblings and all of us that have come to know and associate with you. You were like the proverbial mother hen to all, guiding, directing and taking hard decisions when occasion so demands. Above all you stood in the gap for all of us in prayers. Since our part crossed through your younger brother Chika Ozo Chime (Ome-Ise 1) of Udi Ancient Kingdom, you became part of my family and have always shown concern for our welfare and well-being. When the news that you were hospitalized in faraway United States got to me, my first reaction was that nothing can hold you down and that in no time you will be up and running again. Anyone that knows you well would not be surprise at this my position. But how wrong I was, because from that journey you joined the saints triumphant and transited to eternal glory on 14 th January, 2024. As we all know, man naturally is a creature of destiny and when it is time, nothing can really stop it. The strongest fails, the mighty falls and the wise lacks counsel. This was your case my dear sister. The book of Ecclesiastes 3:1-2 summed it up thus “To everything there is a season, a time for every purpose under heaven, a time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant, and a time to pluck what is planted”. Mummy Joy, you came, you saw and you conquered as summed up by St. Paul’s Valedictory in 2 Timothy 4:7-8 “You have fought the good fight, you have finished the race, you have kept the faith. Finally, there is laid up for you the crown of righteousness, which the Lord, the righteous Judge, will give to you on this Day”. You will be profoundly missed my dear big sister. Fare well big Auntie, Fare well Mummy Joy Fare well Ada CU King, till we meet again in paradise. Chief Chidozie Paul Eneh and Family. (Eka Ekpuchi Onwa 1) of Udi Ancient Kingdom https://joychidobem.com/activity/p/30/ Sat, 09 Mar 2024 17:57:51 +0000

EULOGY TO A CHAIR LEADER MUMMY JOY NKECHI AGATHA CHIDOBEM

It is with heavy heart that I pen down this eulogy to a wonderful woman. A woman of excellence, a dear sister, friend and chair leader Auntie Nkechi Joy Chidobem. You were a woman of substance, intellect, insightful, articulate, organized, of kind disposition, friendly and a go getter.…Read More

]]> 0 8dd0c268a963f2b2fbcb2ff2a8353189 Tribute To My Dearest Mother-in-law Mrs. Joy Nkechi Chidobem. Dear Mommy (Mother-in-law), thank you for accepting me into your family and for your unflinching love and support. Thank you for all the fasting and prayers for our family, Thank you for your unconditional love for our son Chamberlain U Obialo Jnr, your grandson who you call your sugar with so much joy and love. I can still visualize how your face lights up with so much joy and happiness whenever we bring him and other members of our family to see you at the hospital. I witnessed how desperately you wanted to get well and leave the hospital to be with our family. Even in the face of death, you never wavered in your strong Christian faith and beliefs, you were strong and fearless. We prayed ceaselessly hoping and believing that you will make it home to be with us and travel back to Nigeria to be with your mother, but God called you to be with him. We are heartbroken, our son your sugar still goes to your room every morning hoping to find grandma and to say good morning. We take solace in the fact that you are in a better place where there is no more pain or suffering. Mommy, you are a precious gift from God, our lives are better because of you. Even, though you are with God, we know and believe that you can still see us, I still see your fearlessness and strong Christian faith in my wife (Chinwe) and our Children Ozioma, Nnenna and your sugar Chamberlain Obialo Jnr. Mommy, you were and will always be an integral and cherished part of our family, a guiding light in our journey. Mommy, may you find eternal peace, boundless joy, and the sweetest rest in the realms beyond. You will be greatly missed and never forgotten. We love you and miss you so much. Chamberlain Obialo & Family. https://joychidobem.com/activity/p/28/ Sat, 09 Mar 2024 17:46:25 +0000

Tribute To My Dearest Mother-in-law Mrs. Joy Nkechi Chidobem.
Dear Mommy (Mother-in-law), thank you for accepting me into your family and for your unflinching love and support. Thank you for all the fasting and prayers for our family, Thank you for your unconditional love for our son…Read More

]]> 0 bce5d54fefb324c2ea09e41802feb94b 💕 TALE ABOUT GRANDMA Grandma was a kind woman, she was born in 1950 and died at the age of 74 years, she was all to my Dad, my Mum, my sister, and myself. Grandma bought a pair of beautiful jeans and clothes for my sister and myself, she also bought chocolates and candy for us, she played a lot with us every day and prayed for us. She was gentle and a loving grandma, and when she died, my family cried. My sister and I did not go to school that day. We wish Grandma was still alive. I am going to miss ❤️ her! Love you Grandma! From:😘Your boy Asher John https://joychidobem.com/activity/p/24/ Sat, 09 Mar 2024 10:23:30 +0000

💕 TALE ABOUT GRANDMA
Grandma was a kind woman, she was born in 1950 and died at the age of 74 years, she was all to my Dad, my Mum, my sister, and myself.
Grandma bought a pair of beautiful jeans and clothes for my sister and myself, she also bought chocolates and candy for us,…Read More

]]> 0 9db3b0cdd45d725e2f2f719690ac6fc9 ALL ABOUT GRANDMA Grandma was always a special woman from the beginning, sure she was old, but she had the biggest heart. She would go to church every day, even if it made her uncomfortable, she was always a follower of God, and she would pray for anyone who could not pray for themselves even in their darkest moments. I remember for my 8th birthday when I walked in through the door and everyone shouted, ‘HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!’ they were all very happy, especially Grandma; she was the happiest for me. She would visit others, whatever it took, like if you were anyone she knew, and you said you were having a wedding, she would always show up. Grandma was a wonderful woman with wonderful Children and grandchildren, she did whatever it took to put things right. She always followed God and prayed in the darkest times, everyone around her felt like her child having the same affection similar to that of their own mothers, she meant everything and anything to all of us, she loved us and we loved her back, that is what it means to be family. I will always miss you dearly! Love you, Grandma!!! Eugenia https://joychidobem.com/activity/p/21/ Sat, 09 Mar 2024 10:06:49 +0000

ALL ABOUT GRANDMA

Grandma was always a special woman from the beginning, sure she was old, but she had the biggest heart.

She would go to church every day, even if it made her uncomfortable, she was always a follower of God, and she would pray for anyone who could not pray for themselves even in their darkest moments.
I remember for my 8th…Read More

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