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I first met Joy or ‘mummy,’ whilst studying at Luton University with Chi Chi. Our first encounter was when I came home to see this flamboyant, warm hearted lady poke her head out of Chi Chi’s room, shouting out, “hello, my darling!”, as she beamed from ear to ear and greeted me with her gracious embrace. I went on many mini adventures with them to London and mummy loved to shop for everyone. Upon taking mummy back to the airport on one occasion I recall her being slightly overweight due to all the ‘shopping!’ Ultimately, Chi Chi and I had to open the case out on the floor in the middle of the airport to rearrange things, subsequently in doing so Chi Chi lifted up a box of Coco pops and the contents fell out all over the floor. Mummy’s response was, ‘quick let’s leave the scene of the crime.’ Consequently, after leaving, two baffled security guards approached and stood there scratching their heads! Fast forward 15 years and I was able to meet up with Chi Chi and mummy in Miniasota back in September 2023. There was no change with the way I was greeted and made to feel part of the family once again after so long apart.

Thu, 14 Mar 2024 21:27:52 +0000

I first met Joy or ‘mummy,’ whilst studying at Luton University with Chi Chi. Our first encounter was when I came home to see this flamboyant, warm hearted lady poke her head out of Chi Chi’s room, shouting out, “hello, my darling!”, as she beamed from ear to ear and greeted me with her gracious embrace. I went on many mini adventures with them…Read More

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In loving memory of our Dear Mummy Joy Nkechi Agatha Chidobem I had the pleasure of spending some time with Mummy Joy back in 2014 and 2015 when my dear sister Chinwe was getting married. I flew from London to Minnesota and Mummy Joy made me feel welcome right away. I remember her bright smile and cheeky personality. She was always ready with a word of wisdom or some sound advice. One thing that stuck in my memory was how much she loved the Lord. Every morning, she would come downstairs to watch EWTN, to pray and commune with her Father. I loved that she was so dedicated to her faith. The last time I spoke to Mummy was in October 2022. She was her usual self, so cheerful and upbeat with many kind words to say. I will miss her gentle laughter and warm, kind words. Now she is resting in the bosom of her Loving Father, by His Grace and Mercy, and looking down on all of us. She would be so proud of the legacy that she has left behind, her beautiful children and grandchildren. We miss you and love you, Mummy Joy

Thu, 14 Mar 2024 12:21:03 +0000

In loving memory of our Dear Mummy Joy Nkechi Agatha Chidobem

I had the pleasure of spending some time with Mummy Joy back in 2014 and 2015 when my dear sister Chinwe was getting married. I flew from London to Minnesota and Mummy Joy made me feel welcome right away. I remember her bright smile and cheeky personality. She was always ready with a…Read More

In loving memory of our dear Aunty Mommy Joy Nkechi Chidobem In loving memory of our beloved Mommy Joy Chidobem. You always brought warmth, love, joy, and laughter into every moment shared with you. Your kindness knew no bounds, and your gentle spirit brought joy and love to everyone you encountered. Memories of your infectious laughter and comforting hugs will forever be cherished, a timeless reminder of the love you showered unconditionally. Though you may have bid farewell to this world, your spirit lives on in the countless lives you touched, leaving behind a legacy of love and compassion that will endure through generations. As we mourn your loss, we find solace in the memories we shared, knowing that you will always remain a cherished presence in our hearts. Until we meet again, we carry your memory with us. Rest peacefully, dear Aunty, knowing that your love has left an indelible mark in our hearts. Lots of love, Arinze and Chinenye Nebo Ikeme and Family

Wed, 13 Mar 2024 13:46:45 +0000

In loving memory of our dear Aunty Mommy Joy Nkechi Chidobem

In loving memory of our beloved Mommy Joy Chidobem. You always brought warmth, love, joy, and laughter into every moment shared with you. Your kindness knew no bounds, and your gentle spirit brought joy and love to everyone you encountered.

Memories of your infectious laughter and…Read More

A Tribute to the late Lady Joy Chidobem (Nee Chime) My dearest Joy Lady we are very grieved that you have left us and passed on to glory to be at the right hand of the Lord God in heaven. You as my darling late brother Supac’s wife were my darling wife and bossom friend until death did us part. We spent so many happy years together and looked forward to many more years to come. But we must submit to the will of God and I want to promise you that we your family will take very good care of your children who are also my very own children that you left behind. We will continue praying that God will provide for them, support them and be there for them always. We all pray that your gentle heart may continue to rest in perfect peace as you are seated at the right hand of our Father Lord God in the bossom of Jesus for ever and ever AMEN. Nono Esomubadiye Nwakego Grace Ejike

Wed, 13 Mar 2024 13:39:59 +0000

A Tribute to the late Lady Joy Chidobem (Nee Chime)

My dearest Joy Lady we are very grieved that you have left us and passed on to glory to be at the right hand of the Lord God in heaven. You as my darling late brother Supac’s wife were my darling wife and bossom friend until death did us part. We spent so many happy years together and looked f…Read More

Epitome of Womanhood After losing my mum at an early age, I have been extremely fortunate and seemingly privileged to have had Grandma as my mother. As her daughter-in-law, the kids and I are always eager to be in her presence, she has the personality of a complete woman worthy of emulation, she is fierce in loving, kind in heart, and strong in the practice of her faith. She is the mother I never had, and I always wanted. The painful news of her passing away in the early hours of that Sunday morning of her birthday has left me devastated and in extreme grief. My family struggles with the reality of her absence daily. Grandma is always very lovely, and there was never a dull moment with her, She always wanted to solve issues, she was truly a problem-solver, always trying to solve people's problems, and I can’t place the source of her energy because she hardly eats, hardly sleeps, but was very active and strong, physically present and involved in all the same places I also found myself to be. Like the biblical shepherd, she always protected her sheep, gathering them from far and wide, and calling them home. With clarity, I remember whenever I called her, her soft and gentle voice would ask first; May...is there any problem? that's the 1st thing she would say, asking more questions about my well-being, the kids' growth, and my overall care, anxious to solve people’s problems; to her, discussing her own problems was so typically unheard of. She goes shopping and buys things for me and the family, sends money to me unannounced, buying the kids beautiful clothes, and toys. She doesn’t share the nature of a typical Nigerian mother-in-law, she is very loving, caring, supporting, and beautifully multi-talented. Grandma never waits for me to call her, and she always responds anytime I call her, but whenever she calls, she would never complain a single word! She has an enormous heart, cooking and feeding people she doesn't even know in her neighborhood with her great family's delightful recipes, everyone around her always had something to eat and drink. Whenever money is sent to her to cater for her expenses and needs; she looks for others to uplift intentionally and gives them the money. Grandma dislikes to see anybody suffer or lack anything as long as there is something she can do about it, more often than not, she would borrow from people who had and give to people who didn’t have! She would always go the extra mile for them. She prays a lot and is a prayer warrior, having a special dedication and love to her Lord and Saviour, as well as to the Marian movement of our Virgin Mother Mary, she prays for everyone around her, offering decades of the Holy Rosary to people she has contacts with, family, friends and loved ones; most times forgets to pray for even herself, grandma taught me that there is always a good reward serving God. I could go on endlessly sharing the good memories of the beautiful relationship we had, the happy moments, and her comforting smiles, she never gets angry for any reason. Grandma, I love you so much and you will always be in my heart. I pray for you and live by the lessons you taught. I miss you!!! Love May Chidobem

Tue, 12 Mar 2024 21:30:09 +0000

Epitome of Womanhood
After losing my mum at an early age, I have been extremely fortunate and seemingly privileged to have had Grandma as my mother.
As her daughter-in-law, the kids and I are always eager to be in her presence, she has the personality of a complete woman worthy of emulation, she is fierce in loving, kind in heart, and strong in…Read More

Mummy, i still find it hard to believe that you are gone. We prayed and trusted God that you will be fine, However the omniscient God who knows all, called you to his blossom , hence i cry no more but rejoice that you are with him in heaven and will continue your prayers for us all. Mummy, you lived an exemplary christian life and your attitude has drawn many to love and appreciate you sincerely. Your laughter and smile brightens up any where you are because the are genuine and infectious. I remember the day you came to Abraham Adesanya, and you spent almost the whole day in church praying without Food nor water, i was challenged and told myself if mummy can do it then i need to take my prayer life more seriously, and have a personal time for the lord. We thank you for standing in the gap in the place of prayers always . If love and money could bring you back, trust me , you will still be with us today,but your assignment here on earth is done and we know you will do great in heaven. We miss dearly ma. Lynda Ngozi Nnadi

Tue, 12 Mar 2024 21:25:22 +0000

Mummy, i still find it hard to believe that you are gone. We prayed and trusted God that you will be fine, However the omniscient God who knows all, called you to his blossom , hence i cry no more but rejoice that you are with him in heaven and will continue your prayers for us all.

Mummy, you lived an exemplary christian life and your attitude…Read More

My dearest mummy Mrs Joy Nkechi Agatha Chidobem. You were a blessing to those who knew you, with your selfless spirit, gentle prayers, and devotion to the rosary. You were a mother to all, offering comfort and care to those around you. You were a light in this world, and your memory will be a comfort to us all. You will be greatly missed, but your legacy of kindness and compassion will live on. We will always remember you for your generosity, compassion, and love. You were a bright light in this world, and your goodness will live on in the hearts of those you touched. May you rest in peace, and may your family find comfort in knowing you were so loved. Thank you for the joy you brought to this world, and for the example you set for us all. May we carry your kindness and compassion forward in our own lives. Adios mummy❤️ From:Eugenia Madueke ,Mrs Nwando Okakpu's friend

Tue, 12 Mar 2024 21:23:39 +0000

My dearest mummy Mrs Joy Nkechi Agatha Chidobem.

You were a blessing to those who knew you, with your selfless spirit, gentle prayers, and devotion to the rosary. You were a mother to all, offering comfort and care to those around you. You were a light in this world, and your memory will be a comfort to us all. You will be greatly missed, but…Read More

Grandma, I don't even know what to say. There are so many things you were supposed to be around for and it kills me to know you won't be there. I think of you everyday and all the memories we have. I wish there were more everyday. I wish there would be a time in the year I would look forward to, knowing you were coming to visit. Grams, there are too many words to describe you but I know for one, beautiful. I know I can speak for my siblings when I say we enjoyed your presence like no other. I miss the dancing, laughing, and singing with you. Playing loud nigerian music and doing your little 2 step dance. Not a day goes by without me thinking of you or a night that I don't pray about you. You were my special grams and I was your baby chimaks. No one loved me the way you did grandma and that will leave a hole that can never be filled. I am so sorry to your family and your children grandma and I wish I could just make everything better for everyone. You were so funny, loving, understanding, compassionate, and so much more. I still cannot believe you are not here anymore. That I won't see you for Christmas, or Thanksgiving, or the summer before each school year. I will forever cherish those times grams. I will miss cooking for you, and turning the tv to EWTN, and cleaning my room for you. You always showed your appreciation and happiness for when I would do something as little as cooking or cleaning. I miss many things about you grandma that can't even be put into words. Lord knows I will miss and love you forever.❤️ Chiamaka

Tue, 12 Mar 2024 21:22:41 +0000

Grandma, I don’t even know what to say. There are so many things you were supposed to be around for and it kills me to know you won’t be there. I think of you everyday and all the memories we have. I wish there were more everyday. I wish there would be a time in the year I would look forward to, knowing you were coming to visit. Grams, there are…Read More

TRIBUTE TO OUR ICON – BIG MAMA We call her Big Mama or Momsy depending on the mood in the house. My first encounter with Big Mama was during our journey to becoming family: the solemnization of Mary Friday and Chijioke Chidobem. It was a relief and noteworthy that our daughter was marrying into a decent Igbo Christian home. I will share two significant exemplary encounters of who Big Mama was to us (Lady Joy Nkechi Agatha Chidobem) As the Eldest and the Mother Representative in my home. I was unable to make the traditional wedding held in our ancestral home. It is cultural to send representatives, in-laws, and siblings. The feedback I received was pleasant. Everyone attested to the fact that she welcomed our daughter with exotic joy, receiving her into her home while glorifying the entire family. Not many women are capable of doing this. I would also like to acknowledge that this is a testament to our in-laws. The reception and warmth we received on the day of the wedding is the same till date. We are honored to be a part of such beautiful people, rich in culture and etiquette. Thank you all for the peace and honor shared between both our homes. For most mothers-in-law, there is always “drama” and a signature undertone of subtle conflict, especially during wedding ceremonies and Omugwo. Momsy was always classy, and she carried herself with great panache and a dignified demeanor dignifiable of a lady. During the white wedding, she bought and sent me my orange-coloured traditional aso-ebi, a gesture I will never forget. The only thing left was to take me to a couture designer to fabricate my dress. Big Mama was always full of surprises. She never accommodated dull moments, and her admiration for art, language, and culture perhaps gave her a deeper essence to live life to the fullest. Her presence brought joy, and she embodied peaceful living. It was a thrill to have Big Mama over during the Omugwo of our first grandchild, Tonia Chidobem. I love how she loves the grandkids and all of us around her. she spends quality time, she is always in the moment, savouring and enjoying every conversation with everyone. Big Mama was never afraid to lead or proffer solutions to challenges. She took challenges head-on. I feel pained that we didn’t get the opportunity to fully celebrate our ICON. She was a good example of what a true mother and mother-in-law should be. Perhaps, it’s important to pause and reflect on the fact that we should all live more intentionally, checking up on one another. I will miss Momsy, I will miss some good cooking and lovely engaging conversations, I will miss her perspective on issues, and the ice cream trips. Indeed, I will miss all the blessings of home. Adieu! Sweet Mother! We may have lost you in the physical, but your legacies, teachings, and presence are here with us. We feel blessed knowing that Heaven has gained yet another angel. Thank you for your leadership and bold perspective, always guiding us with light and love. You will be greatly missed! We love you, Big Mama! May your gentle soul continue to rest in the bosom of the Lord! Amen!!! Pharm. Princess Uduak Ndubuisi For: The Friday Edem Family

Tue, 12 Mar 2024 21:21:15 +0000

TRIBUTE TO OUR ICON – BIG MAMA
We call her Big Mama or Momsy depending on the mood in the house.
My first encounter with Big Mama was during our journey to becoming family: the solemnization of Mary Friday and Chijioke Chidobem.
It was a relief and noteworthy that our daughter was marrying into a decent Igbo Christian home.
I will share two…Read More

A tribute to my darling Aunty Joy! I want to share a story about my aunty Joy, that some of you may not know. She was the first aunty of mine to marry one of my uncles, Uncle Sylva who we all called uncle Supac. My mom being his older sister, so of course I was one of her flower girls at their wedding along with her sister Nkiru Chime. She made an impression on me, my aunty Joy was aways dressed very fashionably back then in the 1970’s and I thought of her as my ‘modern’ aunty. Aunty Joy as we would say marammma nwanyi, was a beautiful, tall, classy and deeply spiritual woman, known for her outgoing and cheerful personality and her devotion to her Christian faith. She was the life of the party, and whenever she showed up at our family gatherings, you will know that she had arrived. Aunty Joy was a natural organizer always taking care of everyone. My mother, Nono Nwakego Grace Ejike (Nee Chidobem), her sister-in-law, affectionately called her “Joy Lady.” My late father, Chiweyite Aguowulu Ejike, her brother-in-law, shared a special nickname with her, showing the close bond they shared. Aunty Joy was always preoccupied with the well-being of others, especially my late uncle Supac, whom she lovingly cared for. I believe that God is now taking care of her in eternal life, and she continues to be a guiding angel for her beloved children and us here on earth. Aunty Joy’s beautiful soul was like a whirlwind, bringing joy and happiness to all who knew her. May her gentle soul rest in peace with Uncle Supac until we meet again. Nene Ne-emelie Ejike-Ogwara

Tue, 12 Mar 2024 21:16:26 +0000

A tribute to my darling Aunty Joy!

I want to share a story about my aunty Joy, that some of you may not know. She was the first aunty of mine to marry one of my uncles, Uncle Sylva who we all called uncle Supac. My mom being his older sister, so of course I was one of her flower girls at their wedding along with her sister Nkiru Chime. She made…Read More

Tribute to Joy Nkechi Agatha Chidobem by Chimdi Chime (Niece) Joy Nkechi Agatha Chidobem or as I call her, aunty Lagos was the eldest sister to my father Chika O. Chime and, to me, a wonderful aunty. Aunty Lagos was a light you wanted to cling unto, she always brought vibrance and a positive uplifting energy whenever she walked into a room. She inspired me in so many ways, to be the love you wanted to receive, to be compassionate and to live an intentional and dedicated life to God and to the work you’ve set out to do. She supported me in everything I did, even when distance was a barrier, I was reminded that she always kept tabs on me and was rooting for me. I have no doubt she continues to do so now that she is with the Lord. That’s the woman she was, an exceptional mother, an incredible aunt and ever loving and supportive sister a phenomenal grandmother, a gift to humanity now and forever. I’m blessed to have had a precious aunt such as herself.

Tue, 12 Mar 2024 21:14:56 +0000

Tribute to Joy Nkechi Agatha Chidobem by Chimdi Chime (Niece)
Joy Nkechi Agatha Chidobem or as I call her, aunty Lagos was the eldest sister to my father Chika O. Chime and, to me, a wonderful aunty. Aunty Lagos was a light you wanted to cling unto, she always brought vibrance and a positive uplifting energy whenever she walked into a room. She…Read More

Tribute to A Special Aunty My deepest condolences to the entire Chidobem family on the loss of an amazing mother, sister, aunt and grandmother. Aunty Nkechi Joy Chidobem was a beautiful soul and I’m sad she had to leave us this soon. Her bright spirit and enthusiasm will always be remembered. My prayers are with the entire family. May her gentle soul rest in peace. 🙏🕊️ Signed: Dr. Thywill Chime(Niece) (Daughter of Chief Chika Chime)

Tue, 12 Mar 2024 21:13:53 +0000

Tribute to A Special Aunty
My deepest condolences to the entire Chidobem family on the loss of an amazing mother, sister, aunt and grandmother. Aunty Nkechi Joy Chidobem was a beautiful soul and I’m sad she had to leave us this soon. Her bright spirit and enthusiasm will always be remembered.
My prayers are with the entire family.
May her g…Read More

My Tribute to My Dear Aunty Lagos From Pearl Chime

Tue, 12 Mar 2024 21:08:44 +0000

My Tribute to My Dear Aunty Lagos

From
Pearl Chime

TRIBUTE TO A DARLING SISTER Yes, a very difficult task, indeed – having to write this tribute to a darling and quintessential sister: “Sister Me”. Of a fact, I started writing this tribute in my heart a couple of weeks ago but my courage kept failing me to pen it down and now, one day after the closing date for the submission of tributes, I just have to start and finish it, all in one day, even if I have to stop thus far. The point is that I am still battling with the fact that Sister Me is dead, as in that she actually died; and that is because she is still very much alive in my mind, possibly just that she is on the other side of an invisible dividing wall, hence I am still referring to her in the present tense in my mind. So much so that I had to ask the T-shirt vendor to take out the word, Late, in the design. Nkechi was just an epitome of what anybody would want in a sister and very truly so. Her arrival in any home or gathering symbolised warmth; joy; energy; camaraderie and all. Having been my elder sister for all the years God has so far blessed me with, it is obvious that the story of our relationship is a quantum one. Starting from our infantile years, when she had to guide and protect us as her juniors; being the first child of Davidson Okonkwo and Comfort Uzoamaka CHIME. Fast forward to the year 1976 when Nkechi wedded, she made my first pair of suit which I donned for her wedding! Career-wise, it was this Sister Me that guided me up to the point of not just becoming an Accountant, but a professional one at that. And when it was time for my wedding, her whole family, including the husband, who was the Chairman of the wedding reception, relocated to Jos, Plateau State, for the event. Though married to ”Supark” in far away Amansiodo, Nkechi championed and resolved any issue/matter that concerned any member of Davidson Chime’s Family. She was quick to remind all of us in any of our family meetings of how our late father enjoined her to ensure to keep the family together on his sick bed at the Amigbo General Hospital in Imo State during the Biafra/Nigeria Civil War. The old man eventually passed on January 6, 1969 and his legacies still live on and on – thanks to Sister Nkechi A-Chime(as she is fondly called) as she kept faith with that fatherly injunction. Again, fast-forward to October 2023 and it gets even clearer why this tribute has continued to be a great pain in my heart and I am trusting God for the fortitude to bear this colossal loss. I was in constant touch with “Sister Me” in far away Minnesota all through October discussing and finalizing all the arrangements for the several social events lined up by the family for the Christmas holidays, including our Mother’s 97 th Birthday celebrations. Nkechi actually chose the design of the cake that was made for Ezinne’s birthday party and she also requested that I make hotel reservations for all her Sons-in-law, who will be attending the several events from far and wide. We were all expectant and awaiting her return in November to kick-start the 2023 Yuletide activities. Then the devil struck and before we could say Jack, the worst happened. And because every conversation and discussion is still fresh on my mind, the whole issue of Nkechi’s passing still looks and sounds like an expensive joke to me but alas, that is the naked fact we have to face. However, we truly and truly take consolation in the fact that Nkechi lived a jolly good life and accomplished so much within the life span which God graciously allocated to her. Starting from her all-round commitment to the Davidson Chime’s family in Udi Town and cutting across to her infectious love, pious life and rock-solid presence in the Sylvanus Chidobem’s family in Amansiodo, Oghe, her good deeds and legacies continue to speak for her. That she will be sorely missed is a huge understatement but we are consoled by the knowledge that she is comfortably seated by her Maker, our everlasting God, and constantly praying for us till we meet again to part no more. Good Night Darling Sister and Continue to Rest in Perfect Peace in The Bosom of the Lord. Always in Our Hearts and Fondly remembered: Chief Sir Chika Ozo Chime(Jnr Brother) Ome-Ise 1 of Udi Ancient Kingdom for: the entire COC family. Friday April 19, 2024.

Tue, 12 Mar 2024 21:07:24 +0000

TRIBUTE TO A DARLING SISTER

Yes, a very difficult task, indeed – having to write this tribute to a darling and quintessential sister: “Sister Me”.

Of a fact, I started writing this tribute in my heart a couple of weeks ago but my courage kept failing me to pen it down and now, one day after the closing date for the submission of tribu…Read More

One of the most thoughtful, strong and resilient people I know, she inspired me to stay motivated in the things I love. She was not one to believe in the idea of giving up and rarely ever lost faith in herself other people or God and that was what made her so special. Some of my favorite memories with her happened recently as over the summer, I would I take her to church multiple times during the week and I enjoyed the talks we had on the way there and back

Tue, 12 Mar 2024 16:25:54 +0000

One of the most thoughtful, strong and resilient people I know, she inspired me to stay motivated in the things I love.
She was not one to believe in the idea of giving up and rarely ever lost faith in herself other people or God and that was what made her so special. Some of my favorite memories with her happened recently as over the summer,…Read More

You know I never knew Aunty's name....Aunty Joy! What a fitting name for a joyful lady! Growing up I came to your house for years, i lived down the road on Ogunlana drive and i remember i always felt welcomed when ever i visited. I felt peaceful when ever i was at your home. Blessed memories of you and all the kids, i was always smiling when i witnesses your interactions with Nneka and her siblings. You have left a beautiful legacy behind, i hope you know you left an imprint in the hearts of all you came in contact with. Rest well Aunty 💜

Mon, 11 Mar 2024 23:28:23 +0000

You know I never knew Aunty’s name….Aunty Joy! What a fitting name for a joyful lady! Growing up I came to your house for years, i lived down the road on Ogunlana drive and i remember i always felt welcomed when ever i visited. I felt peaceful when ever i was at your home. Blessed memories of you and all the kids, i was always smiling when i…Read More

Farewell Message to Mama Joy Nkechi Agatha Chidobem The Entire Resource Management (RM) Team of the World Bank Country Office in Abuja, Nigeria expresses their condolences to the entire family of the Chidobems, and Chimes on the passing of our mother, grandmother, and Sister of our beloved Boss – Sir Chika Ozo Chime, The Ome Ise of Udi Town. The news of your passing came as a shock. We joined the prayer line for divine intervention for your quick turnaround, but God thought it better to gain your eternal rest. Our beloved boss of 33 years was truly proud of his strongly knitted immediate and extended family, he never failed to talk about them in glorying terms. Mummy Chidobem was a regular mention, the aristocratic lady of the Chime’s family, agile, beautiful, energetic, highly productive, undaunting, no nonsense woman. She held the clan and connected everyone. This we witnessed last at Chika Chime Jnr’s wedding. You commanded the show. You made impact in your lifetime; you left indelible marks….. Now you leave a wide void difficult to fill. May God console your family and loved ones, grant them the fortitude to bear the great loss. We pray for the repose of your soul. Your impact and great love for your family speaks long after you are gone. You remain in the hearts of everyone that knew you. Adieu Mama Joy Nkechi Agatha Chidobem. Have your peace in God’s bosom ma. Mrs Abimbola Matt-Ojo, On behalf of the RM Team World Bank Office, Abuja, Nigeria

Sat, 09 Mar 2024 23:24:05 +0000

Farewell Message to Mama Joy Nkechi Agatha Chidobem

The Entire Resource Management (RM) Team of the World Bank Country Office in Abuja, Nigeria expresses their condolences to the entire family of the Chidobems, and Chimes on the passing of our mother, grandmother, and Sister of our beloved Boss – Sir Chika Ozo Chime, The Ome Ise of Udi T…Read More

EULOGY TO A CHAIR LEADER MUMMY JOY NKECHI AGATHA CHIDOBEM It is with heavy heart that I pen down this eulogy to a wonderful woman. A woman of excellence, a dear sister, friend and chair leader Auntie Nkechi Joy Chidobem. You were a woman of substance, intellect, insightful, articulate, organized, of kind disposition, friendly and a go getter. You were always on the move, active, effective and never left what can be done now for a minute longer. Impossibility is not in your lexicon. Your presence and approach to issues has profound effects and inspires confidence and winning spirit among your siblings and all of us that have come to know and associate with you. You were like the proverbial mother hen to all, guiding, directing and taking hard decisions when occasion so demands. Above all you stood in the gap for all of us in prayers. Since our part crossed through your younger brother Chika Ozo Chime (Ome-Ise 1) of Udi Ancient Kingdom, you became part of my family and have always shown concern for our welfare and well-being. When the news that you were hospitalized in faraway United States got to me, my first reaction was that nothing can hold you down and that in no time you will be up and running again. Anyone that knows you well would not be surprise at this my position. But how wrong I was, because from that journey you joined the saints triumphant and transited to eternal glory on 14 th January, 2024. As we all know, man naturally is a creature of destiny and when it is time, nothing can really stop it. The strongest fails, the mighty falls and the wise lacks counsel. This was your case my dear sister. The book of Ecclesiastes 3:1-2 summed it up thus “To everything there is a season, a time for every purpose under heaven, a time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant, and a time to pluck what is planted”. Mummy Joy, you came, you saw and you conquered as summed up by St. Paul’s Valedictory in 2 Timothy 4:7-8 “You have fought the good fight, you have finished the race, you have kept the faith. Finally, there is laid up for you the crown of righteousness, which the Lord, the righteous Judge, will give to you on this Day”. You will be profoundly missed my dear big sister. Fare well big Auntie, Fare well Mummy Joy Fare well Ada CU King, till we meet again in paradise. Chief Chidozie Paul Eneh and Family. (Eka Ekpuchi Onwa 1) of Udi Ancient Kingdom

Sat, 09 Mar 2024 17:57:51 +0000

EULOGY TO A CHAIR LEADER MUMMY JOY NKECHI AGATHA CHIDOBEM

It is with heavy heart that I pen down this eulogy to a wonderful woman. A woman of excellence, a dear sister, friend and chair leader Auntie Nkechi Joy Chidobem. You were a woman of substance, intellect, insightful, articulate, organized, of kind disposition, friendly and a go getter.…Read More

Tribute to Big Mummy Big Mummy, Big Aunty or Aunty Lagos as she’s often referred to was one of a kind. Her demeanour never depicted her age at all. She was always so full of life, laughter and playful. When you meet or encounter her, your first impression will be to immediately give her her due respect because of the kind of aura she possesses but at the same time you’ll then realise how approachable and down to earth she is. She had the soul of a teenager. So active and jovial. My last encounter with her was during my Dad’s house opening back in 25th December 2022. A super prayerful and religious woman. Always had her heart in the right place and always wanted what was best for everyone even if it meant her taking the back seat and allowing someone else (like her siblings) to take the lead. She will truly be missed. But we all know she’s in the bosom of the Lord having her well deserved and fully earned final rest. Knowing this gives us great comfort during our mourning period. Rest In Peace Big Mummy! 🥺 From Nnamdi Chime

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Tribute to Big Mummy
Big Mummy, Big Aunty or Aunty Lagos as she’s often referred to was one of a kind. Her demeanour never depicted her age at all. She was always so full of life, laughter and playful. When you meet or encounter her, your first impression will be to immediately give her her due respect because of the kind of aura she possesses b…Read More

Tribute To My Dearest Mother-in-law Mrs. Joy Nkechi Chidobem. Dear Mommy (Mother-in-law), thank you for accepting me into your family and for your unflinching love and support. Thank you for all the fasting and prayers for our family, Thank you for your unconditional love for our son Chamberlain U Obialo Jnr, your grandson who you call your sugar with so much joy and love. I can still visualize how your face lights up with so much joy and happiness whenever we bring him and other members of our family to see you at the hospital. I witnessed how desperately you wanted to get well and leave the hospital to be with our family. Even in the face of death, you never wavered in your strong Christian faith and beliefs, you were strong and fearless. We prayed ceaselessly hoping and believing that you will make it home to be with us and travel back to Nigeria to be with your mother, but God called you to be with him. We are heartbroken, our son your sugar still goes to your room every morning hoping to find grandma and to say good morning. We take solace in the fact that you are in a better place where there is no more pain or suffering. Mommy, you are a precious gift from God, our lives are better because of you. Even, though you are with God, we know and believe that you can still see us, I still see your fearlessness and strong Christian faith in my wife (Chinwe) and our Children Ozioma, Nnenna and your sugar Chamberlain Obialo Jnr. Mommy, you were and will always be an integral and cherished part of our family, a guiding light in our journey. Mommy, may you find eternal peace, boundless joy, and the sweetest rest in the realms beyond. You will be greatly missed and never forgotten. We love you and miss you so much. Chamberlain Obialo & Family.

Sat, 09 Mar 2024 17:46:25 +0000

Tribute To My Dearest Mother-in-law Mrs. Joy Nkechi Chidobem.
Dear Mommy (Mother-in-law), thank you for accepting me into your family and for your unflinching love and support. Thank you for all the fasting and prayers for our family, Thank you for your unconditional love for our son…Read More

💕 TALE ABOUT GRANDMA Grandma was a kind woman, she was born in 1950 and died at the age of 74 years, she was all to my Dad, my Mum, my sister, and myself. Grandma bought a pair of beautiful jeans and clothes for my sister and myself, she also bought chocolates and candy for us, she played a lot with us every day and prayed for us. She was gentle and a loving grandma, and when she died, my family cried. My sister and I did not go to school that day. We wish Grandma was still alive. I am going to miss ❤️ her! Love you Grandma! From:😘Your boy Asher John

Sat, 09 Mar 2024 10:23:30 +0000

💕 TALE ABOUT GRANDMA
Grandma was a kind woman, she was born in 1950 and died at the age of 74 years, she was all to my Dad, my Mum, my sister, and myself.
Grandma bought a pair of beautiful jeans and clothes for my sister and myself, she also bought chocolates and candy for us,…Read More

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ALL ABOUT GRANDMA Grandma was always a special woman from the beginning, sure she was old, but she had the biggest heart. She would go to church every day, even if it made her uncomfortable, she was always a follower of God, and she would pray for anyone who could not pray for themselves even in their darkest moments. I remember for my 8th birthday when I walked in through the door and everyone shouted, ‘HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!’ they were all very happy, especially Grandma; she was the happiest for me. She would visit others, whatever it took, like if you were anyone she knew, and you said you were having a wedding, she would always show up. Grandma was a wonderful woman with wonderful Children and grandchildren, she did whatever it took to put things right. She always followed God and prayed in the darkest times, everyone around her felt like her child having the same affection similar to that of their own mothers, she meant everything and anything to all of us, she loved us and we loved her back, that is what it means to be family. I will always miss you dearly! Love you, Grandma!!! Eugenia

Sat, 09 Mar 2024 10:06:49 +0000

ALL ABOUT GRANDMA

Grandma was always a special woman from the beginning, sure she was old, but she had the biggest heart.

She would go to church every day, even if it made her uncomfortable, she was always a follower of God, and she would pray for anyone who could not pray for themselves even in their darkest moments.
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"The Heartbeat of Home: Honoring the Sweetest Mum❤️" "In loving memory of a cherished mother, whose kindness, wisdom, and boundless love illuminated our lives. She will forever remain in our hearts. I truly can not express my pain and grief with your going, I have always wanted to bring the world to your feet for accommodating my multiple nuances. Mummykus is a name I normally use and formed part of our family literature, I tend to add darling when I want to get something from you or borrow from you which in most cases I never return, slow to anger but always swift to come to my defense and protection, as I hold my pen with a shaking hand to write these few words of mine, my eyes swell up in tears flowing ceaselessly because of the sweetest and fondest of memories I have; and those that will remain uncreated, you can't see them, you cannot see my feelings. Who should I turn to now that you're gone? Who do I turn to listen to my silly jokes? who should I call when I need to hear a motherly soothing voice to tell me that all is and will be well? How do I fill the deepened valley in my heart that is full of nails and spikes created by your departure and causing my heart to bleed profusely, who do I cry to for help?... All these questions…no single answer! Daddy left…leaving me as your husband and son, you joined me on that tumultuous road immediately after his passing away, providing care, love, attention, mindfulness, and protection, I never saw a tear from your eyes because you wanted to be strong for me and my siblings. You did an excellent Job! From Chi-boy…to Chijioke.…to Chi-man, your wings of love spread all around me. The kids will miss you terribly... they cry occasionally, most of the beautiful clothes you bought for them remain unpacked as they find it difficult to open their gifts of love from Grandma! We talk about you daily, we pray with you in our hearts…your song…’Oh lord, deliver souls…Oh lord, deliver souls…You’re able! You’re able!! You’re able!!!, a sweet melody that melts even the hardest of hearts remains fresh on their lips. I do not mourn as if I lack faith which is quite frankly the opposite, I weep because my plans for you and I have been shattered. In pain, I celebrate you, Mum, I bless God Almighty for bringing me into this world through you and having the best of life in every sense of it I want you to know that I fought hard for you, I prayed even harder for you and I will always love you oh mummykus! Even in sickness and death, you still pulled your weight and brought people together in prayer, love, and Unity, ‘family’ was your watchword. You have gone to be with our maker, and I know the kind of commotion that will be going on with our Mother Mary and Master Jesus, all the heavenly angels in full jubilation. God help me! Death leaves a heartache no one can heal…Love leaves a memory no one can steal…Forgetting you, never Mummykus…. You live on in our memories… May your beautiful Soul Rest In Perfect Peace! Amen!

Sat, 09 Mar 2024 09:21:47 +0000

“The Heartbeat of Home: Honoring the Sweetest Mum❤️”

“In loving memory of a cherished mother, whose kindness, wisdom, and boundless love illuminated our lives. She will forever remain in our hearts.

I truly can not express my pain and grief with your going, I have…Read More

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Mummy, you were the most precious gift from God. You still are, to this day, in the midst of this darkness. I think of you everyday with tears and love. I still question God and still find it hard to see beyond the excruciating pain and grief of your absence. I still wake up devastated, broken hearted and still in shock. This life is so different without you in it and I still can’t believe you are gone, mummy. Some days, I tell myself it can’t be true, and maybe one day, I will see you walk through the doors. You’ve always been a strong force of love and faith in my life and I miss talking to you, praying with you and laughing with you. You uplifted me everytime things seemed bleak, and celebrated me with the tiniest of achievements, no matter what. Your belief in God and in humanity was just incredible and you taught me the power of faith and prayer. Your prayer life was phenomenal. You were phenomenal. All my life you have been a positive role model for me and everyone around who knew you. From the small things to the big things, you showed incredible principles. We grew up having a day for the poor every week when we would cook for the community and drive around delivering the food. They didn’t have to worry about food that day as they knew what day we were coming, and also had a day for the priests when we would cook for priests. You have always lived your life in consideration of others even if it meant putting yourself in painful or uncomfortable situations. Everyday until you left us, mummy, you continued to show extraordinary humor, love and respect to everyone who came in contact with you. Your love for God never wavered even when in pain. Mummy, I am so sorry you didn’t live to see all your grandchildren grow up to be adults, I’m so sorry you are not here today for all the things we hoped and prayed and believed you would be here for. You were my mum, my prayer warrior, my cheerleader, my comforter, my confidant. You always gave me advice founded on faith and God. I miss you so much mummy. Everyday is so hard without you. My hope is that we will all meet again on resurrection day. You were an angel on earth, mummy. We didn’t even deserve you and maybe that is why God called you to him. You yearned for him everyday of your life. You sacrificed so much for us and I can never thank you enough mummy for everything you did for me. You never let me give up no matter how bad things were and you always showed me God would make things right, in his time. You would make me smile and laugh and believe life would always get better if we kept praying and hoping in God. Many times, you were right. You were exemplary in the life you lived and if I can be half the woman you were, that would be an honor. Please pray for us so our hearts would heal one day at a time. In this grief, agony, and anguish, I am thankful for the legacy you left behind. Throughout your life, your faith, strength, dignity and love never wavered. I miss your smile, your jokes, your songs, your compassion, your presence more than words can ever say. I miss taking care of you. We have no one else like you in our lives. CJ still goes into your room looking for you. He misses you calling him ‘Sugar’. I miss that too. I miss everything about you mummy and I pray for you. I love you more than words can ever say. I love you so much mummy. Agatha Joy Chidobem, Please Pray For Us.

Sat, 09 Mar 2024 07:41:22 +0000

Mummy, you were the most precious gift from God. You still are, to this day, in the midst of this darkness. I think of you everyday with tears and love. I still question God and still find it hard to see beyond the excruciating pain and grief of your absence. I still wake up devastated, broken hearted and still in shock. This life is so different…Read More