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Thu, 23 Oct 2025 13:53:04 +0000

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A Light That Will Forever Shine” In the quiet corners of our hearts, Where memories linger and tears flow, We hold you close, our dear friend’s mum, A light that will forever glow. Your laughter echoed through the rooms, Your kindness touched so many lives, In every hug, in every smile, Your love, like a beacon, survives. The garden blooms with flowers fair, Each petal whispers your sweet name, And when the wind rustles the leaves, It carries your spirit, just the same. Though you’ve crossed the veil of stars, Your legacy remains, steadfast and true, A mother, a friend, a guiding light, Forever etched in the skies’ azure hue. Rest well, dear soul, in peace’s embrace, For you’ve left footprints on our hearts, And as we mourn, we celebrate your life, Grateful for the love your journey imparts. Chijioke , you and all your family are in our prayers . The Fountain school Alumni

Fri, 19 Apr 2024 10:04:58 +0000

A Light That Will Forever Shine”

In the quiet corners of our hearts, Where memories linger and tears flow, We hold you close, our dear friend’s mum, A light that will forever glow.

Your laughter echoed through the rooms, Your kindness touched so many lives, In every hug, in every smile, Your love, like a beacon, survives.

The garden blo…Read More

We wish you God's speed ma to the bossom of our creator. A mother to my brother..., a teacher to us all. May you continue to guide our steps tender till we meet to path.no more. Chijioke, your family remains in my prayers. Rest on mama.

Fri, 19 Apr 2024 06:50:34 +0000

We wish you God’s speed ma
to the bossom of our creator.
A mother to my brother…, a teacher to us all. May you continue to guide our steps tender till we meet to path.no more.

Chijioke, your family remains in my prayers.

Rest on mama.

Remembrances of Joy Let me tell you about my best friend. It is quite remarkable to find a best friend, a truly kindred spirit. But It is most unusual to find one as holy, as kind, as fiercely loyal to family and friends as Joy Chidobem. I first met her a few days before Chinwe and Chamberlain’s wedding. As the day approached, Joy decided that she needed to change something about the marriage ceremony. Deacon Michael told her that that part of the liturgy could not be changed, according to the rules of the Church. Joy told him that she would go to the Archbishop’s office to persuade him to agree to the exception for the wedding. She said, I go to talk to the Cardinal in Nigeria all the time! Finally, Deacon Michael convinced her to keep the ceremony as it was planned, but she was not happy. That is my friend Joy. She is, and always was, a force to be reckoned with. I found this to be true particularly when it came to her children. She is a lioness! She watches over them, prays for them, and God help you if you get on the wrong side of her where her children are concerned. Of course, Deacon Michael and I consider Chinwe to be like a daughter, and so we agree. Joy and I were casual friends, up until the moment the world changed. That is, when our beloved C. J. (our Godson) was born. Chinwe tells me that Joy prayed day and night, without sleeping or eating for days, begging God to send Chinwe and Chamberlain a baby. And he didn’t just send any miraculous baby; he sent a practically perfect baby. This baby was born on the anniversary of the day his late Grandfather Sylvanus passed – another miracle! And after his birth, Nana Joy stayed a good long time to help care for him. It was during this time that we became close friends. Chinwe went back to work while Joy watched CJ. She told me that in Nigeria she went to daily Mass, and she longed to go to daily Mass here, so on Chinwe’s day off from work, we would go to weekday Mass at St. Alphonsus. The first time we went, After Mass was over, I stood up to leave. She looked at me, shocked, and said, Are we not going to say hello to Mother Mary? Off we went to Mary’s shrine, to light candles, and pray the Rosary, pray to Our Mother of Perpetual Help, pray The Memorare. This became part of our weekly ritual. Then there were the shopping trips. We tended to get lots of sidewise glances, she in her beautiful Nigerian clothing, with pictures of Mother Mary on her dresses, and I dressed in my regular raggedy clothing. Picture the two of us just before Christmas, at Target. Joy would hold up some pajamas, and ask: Do you think these will fit Isabel, her granddaughter in Nigeria? And I’d reminded her that I didn’t know her out of town family. Down the next aisle, she would pick up slippers and ask if I thought they would fit Nneka, her daughter in North Carolina. I learned to say “yes” to all these questions and that would satisfy her. I said we were best friends, but that not true — She was my best friend, that’s true, but her heart truly belonged to Deacon Michael. He could bless a gallon of distilled water into holy water for her, which would not last as long as you might think. He had every answer to her every question. When the Deacon drove us to mass- what an exciting event! – She would sit in the front seat next to him because it was hard to her to get in the back seat. I got in the back seat. She would hang on his every word, as they chatted and he drove. Every so often I would try to interject a comment, she would hold up a finger, point to Deacon Michael, and say please go on Deacon Michael. She made me laugh out loud. Joy told me that the leader of one of her many prayer groups told her that her name should not be just Joy, but Agatha Joy, because she would have to suffer much in her life. These last few months have been full of suffering for her and for all who love, but we believe and we hope that she is now happy to be with Sylvanus. And we believe and we hope that we will be with her in the world to come. From Jude W

Wed, 10 Apr 2024 00:39:59 +0000

Remembrances of Joy

Let me tell you about my best friend. It is quite remarkable to find a best friend, a truly kindred spirit. But It is most unusual to find one as holy, as kind, as fiercely loyal to family and friends as Joy Chidobem. I first met her a few days before Chinwe and Chamberlain’s wedding. As the day approached, Joy decided t…Read More

TRIBUTE TO MY COUSIN, MRS. NKECHI JOY AGATHA CHIDOBEM. Kay Kay was my pet name for my cousin and in response she called me “Ngoo my darling”. Today, it is with a deep sense of sorrow and loss that I am penning this tribute to you. The news of your passing was bone chilling, shocking, unbelievable and unacceptable. Yet it proved true. Kay dearest, you were more than a cousin, you were my sister and friend. Thank you so much for the love, trust, pains and joy that we shared together. Little did I know it was going to end so abruptly. God knows the best. I remember that exactly a year ago, in January 2023, both of us were together at my son-in law’s grave side as he was being interred, crying our hearts out. Who would have ever believed that one year and a few months later, I would be doing the same at yours? Kay, life is indeed mysterious and unpredictable. According to Shakespeare, “ life is but a walking shadow.” Kay Kay losing you is a tragic event, especially at a time when your aged mother, your beautiful and well raised children and grand children need you the most. Kay, the vacuum your demise created in our lives especially in the Chime and Chidobem families, is incomprehensible. Only God can fill it. My cousin, Nkechi Joy Chidobem(Nee Chime), was a quintessential lady, beautiful, joyful, elegant, witty, a no nonsense person, a devoted mother, daughter, wife, sister, friend, and loving human being who loved God unequivocally . I am certain she is in the bosom of her creator, the Almighty God, who loves her more than we do. Kay Kay, my family and I, particularly, my daughter and your daughter too, Barr. Lota Blessing Owo-Osarollor and her siblings, will miss you more than words can convey. Nevertheless, we take solace in the word of God which says,” I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race. I have kept the faith”. (2 Timothy 4 verse 7). Kay Kay you have fought the good fight, you have run the race and you have kept the faith. Surely, the crown of victory is now upon your head forever. Praise God. Kay Kay, what it means to lose you on this side of creation,no one can put into words. May you continue to find eternal rest in heaven, where there is no more pain or death but rejoicing in the presence of the Lord God Almighty. I love you, my dearest, but Jesus loves you more. O God, grant us the fortitude to bear this irreparable loss. Adieu, my cousin and my friend. Adieu, daughter of Zion. Till we meet to part no more. Your cousin (Ngoo my darling) Dr. Mrs Ngozi Owo & family. …

Wed, 10 Apr 2024 00:36:28 +0000

TRIBUTE TO MY COUSIN, MRS. NKECHI JOY AGATHA CHIDOBEM.

Kay Kay was my pet name for my cousin and in response she called me “Ngoo my darling”. Today, it is with a deep sense of sorrow and loss that I am penning this tribute to you. The news of your passing was bone chilling, shocking, unbelievable and unacceptable. Yet it proved true.

Kay dea…Read More

The Best Mother in the world My mama, my Queen, my Rock, my strength, my heart, my love, my Iron Lady, my lioness, my everything. As tears roll down my eyes, I tremble as I write this knowing why I do. My God, My dear Mother. I miss you mummy. Words will never be enough to express what I feel and how I feel. My bestfriend is not here. My confidant, you are the first love of my life and the perfect one. Everything you did, everything you are, showed how loving, incredible and amazing God made you. You were perfect in every way. You did everything right and loved with your whole heart. You saw life in such a beautiful and spiritual way, no one can compare. You lived life to the fullest and experienced what only most dream of; you are my superstar. My role model. I know you did not want to leave so soon, but God is the greatest, and I know God is keeping you safe in heaven and you are at peace. I know you are finally with dad; I’m sure he missed you as much as you missed him. Please say hello to Dad and we miss him so much too. I still feel your presence every single day. I still hear your voice, I can still smell you and I know you are definitely still here with us. I also know you are up there in heaven already controlling, demanding and having a wonderful time in heaven with singing and praises. I know how much you did for us ALL, the sacrifices and we love you to eternity. Thank you for showing me how to love, how to be kind, how to be pray, how to love God and how a mother should be. As I told you every day, you are the best mother in the world. If wishes were given, there are still so many things we talked about doing, so many things we wanted to eat and so many places we wanted and talked about going that I wish we could still go and do. I would wish this was a bad dream I would wake up from. I would wish for you to live forever and live to enjoy and see the best the world should offer you. I would wish for you to hold my hand again and walk with me to school, to church or home. I would wish to eat more suya and drink more wine with you. I would wish for you. I will never agree to this reality. I know you are not here in the physical, but I know you will always be by my side as always and forever. God knows why and I can’t question God and I will not. This one hurts mummy. Your Prince is heartbroken. The pain is there and it’s immense. You will be with me forever. I promise to continue to make you and daddy proud. I love you so much mummy. I know the one thing you would not want me to do is cry, but to make sure to always celebrate you every single day, pray to God, thank him for everything and to cherish all our memories. I know this is not the end and I will see you again, but until then mummy, may your soul rest in perfect heavenly peace. From your loving Prince, Ekene

Tue, 09 Apr 2024 21:14:45 +0000

The Best Mother in the world

My mama, my Queen, my Rock, my strength, my heart, my love, my Iron Lady, my lioness, my everything. As tears roll down my eyes, I tremble as I write this knowing why I do. My God, My dear Mother. I miss you mummy.

Words will never be enough to express what I feel and how I feel. My bestfriend is not here.…Read More

To the History Maker: Joy Nkechi Agatha Chidobem - My Magnificent Legend of a Mother-in-law Everyone is heartbroken. It still feels like an unreal dream. We are all waiting to wake up from this nightmare where you no longer exist in this world. Our history maker, our legend, our Iron Lady!! Mommy, I want to say thank you for all the many lessons you impacted. I decided to summarize some of the many lessons you not only taught me but showed me in actions. 1) Pray everyday - To God the trinity, to Angels, to Saints, to Mother Mary, to heaven. 2) Praise God everyday - What shall we say until the Lord, all we have to say is Thank you God!! 3) Love God and be unapologetically audacious about your love for God. 4) An ultimate Trust and Faith in God. 5) The Beautiful Strength of a Woman. 6) A history making career of being successful, working hard, showing Integrity, being Passionate, having love for Country and Community. 7) How to be an Amazing and Supportive wife. 8) How to be a praying, compassionate, supportive and loving mother. 9) How to be a wonderful daughter, sister and friend. 10) A turn up fun loving joyous Queen. 👑 Thank you for the overwhelming overflow of love and support that you freely gave. From the moment we met, it was pure love. I remember you telling me not to worry, that you have already accepted me. On the first weekend of meeting you, how? Mommy that I have heard is extremely picky, accepted me so easily, no questions asked, just pure acceptance. Thank you. Thank you for accepting me. Thank you for welcoming me as your fellow Mrs. Chidobem, always making me feel like your daughter, you are a true mother. It was always fun realizing how similar we both are, Mommy I truly miss you. I miss your strength, I miss your wisdom, I miss your laughter, I miss your teasing. I know you still have a lot to teach us. I know you are still here with us, watching and instructing. I have many requests for you but most importantly help us!! Help us Mommy, help us in all ways. Thank God we can confidently say our Mother is in Heaven, with the creator of the universe God, reunited with the wonderful love of her life, Sylvanus. I can only imagine how happy and sweet the reunion. I am not sure it’s a consolation but it’s a fact that reassures. Great woman, Legend, Matriarch, Mrs Chidobem a beautiful farewell I wish you. I pray that you continue to rest in peace, in the bosom of the Almighty, in heaven where you can do your favorite activities, praying and praising God. Enjoy Heaven Mommy, you worked tirelessly on this Earth so you definitely deserve all the mansions and rewards you are receiving in Heaven. Enjoy Mama, you deserve it and more. 🥰🥰🥰 I love you. I promise to continue to honor your legacy. As you handed Ekene over to me, please Mommy continue to help and guide us. We know you’re never far away. Watch over us!! I love you Mommy. Adieu!! ❤️❤️💔💔 From your daughter, Chinelo Chidobem

Tue, 09 Apr 2024 17:40:16 +0000

To the History Maker: Joy Nkechi Agatha Chidobem – My Magnificent Legend of a Mother-in-law

Everyone is heartbroken. It still feels like an unreal dream. We are all waiting to wake up from this nightmare where you no longer exist in this world.
Our history maker, our legend, our Iron Lady!! Mommy, I want to say thank you for all the many…Read More

In loving memory to Dearest Aunty Nkechi a.k.a Mum. Aunty was more than a mere presence; she was a beacon of strength, compassion, and unconditional love. Her warmth and nurturing spirit enveloped all who crossed her path, leaving an indelible mark in our hearts. From her gentle guidance to her unwavering support to my family, she instilled within anyone who crossed her path with values of kindness, resilience, and empathy. I vividly recall how Aunty treated me like one of her sons whenever I visited the family house in Lagos from Enugu on numerous holidays. You would think I was part of her family. I’m truly blessed and honoured to have known her and have her be part of my life journey growing up. She has a beautiful heart and always did whatever she could to help others. I will always remember Aunty’s Contagious laughter, warm smile, and open heart will never be forgotten. She was truly amazing, and we can all see where her kids got their loving spirit from. She lives on through the legacy of love she nurtured within her family, a legacy that shall endure the test of time and lives on in them all. Aunty was also an outstanding human who will live in our hearts and memories forever. She will be sorely missed. To her lovely family, extended family, and friends, in times of darkness, may you find solace in the countless memories that serve as pillars of strength, uplifting you during moments of despair. May her love serve as a guiding light, illuminating the path ahead as you navigate the complexities of life without her physical presence. Gone but not forgotten, always in our hearts….Adieu Mum! Ifeanyichukwu Owo

Mon, 08 Apr 2024 16:21:38 +0000

In loving memory to Dearest Aunty Nkechi a.k.a Mum.

Aunty was more than a mere presence; she was a beacon of strength, compassion, and unconditional love. Her warmth and nurturing spirit enveloped all who crossed her path, leaving an indelible mark in our hearts. From her gentle guidance to her unwavering support to my
family, she instilled…Read More

Mon, 08 Apr 2024 16:11:51 +0000

Condolences on the Passing of Your Dearly Beloved Mum Dear Engr.Chijioke Chidobem, It is with heavy hearts and profound sadness that the entire Mechanical/Production Engineering (Class of 2003) Alumni Association Enugu State University of Science extend our deepest condolences to you and your family on the passing of your dearly beloved mother. Please know that the entire alumni community shares in your grief during this difficult time. While we may not have had the privilege of knowing your mother personally, we recognize the profound impact she must have had on your life and the person you have become. From the stories you've shared and the memories you've cherished, it's evident that she was a remarkable woman who left an indelible mark on those around her. Losing a mother is one of life's greatest challenges, and we understand the depth of sorrow that accompanies such a loss. Please find solace in the love and support of your family, friends, and the extended network of alumni who stand beside you in solidarity. As you navigate through this period of mourning, may you find comfort in the cherished moments you shared with your mother and in the legacy of love and kindness she leaves behind. Know that her spirit will live on in the lives she touched and the hearts she uplifted. If there's anything we can do to support you during this time, please don't hesitate to reach out. Whether it's lending a listening ear, sharing fond memories, or simply offering a shoulder to lean on, we are here for you. In closing, please accept our heartfelt condolences once again. May the fond memories of your mother bring you peace, and may her soul rest in eternal peace. Accept our deepest sympathy, ...AMES Family.

Mon, 25 Mar 2024 16:41:46 +0000

*Condolences on the Passing of Your Dearly Beloved Mum*

Dear Engr.Chijioke Chidobem,

It is with heavy hearts and profound sadness that the entire Mechanical/Production Engineering (Class of 2003) Alumni Association Enugu State University of Science extend our deepest condolences to you and your family on the passing of your dearly…Read More

Mon, 25 Mar 2024 10:03:26 +0000

Kai!! I still can't believe that my lovely, wonderful mum is gone!! I still find myself reaching for the phone to call her. Gone from us, gone from cancer. Throughout her journey with cancer, I saw her struggling to make sense of what was happening to her. Esophageal cancer is an aggressive one and for most patients, by the time they experience symptoms, it has spread already. That was the case with mum, by the time we found out, it had spread to her lungs and liver. Was still dancing, looked healthy and sounded fine. Her only symptom, was a cough that was not constant and she said it abated when she used cough drops. She did not lose weight, neither was there a history of family cancer until now. None of us thought of cancer. How could we? Her primary complaint was her blood pressure and even her inconsistent cough was attributed to her blood pressure medications. Her mother is still alive at 97 years old and my great grandfather lived to be 99. No history of smoking nor drinking. So how did we find out? An elevated blood pressure necessitated an ER visit and a look at her chest xrays prompted the physician to request a CT scan. That was less than 3 months ago. She fought valiantly, fought as a warrior. She wasn't given much chance of surviving. But along with the cancer, she had several infections including covid and also developed blood clot. She needed several blood transfusions, and has been in the hospital for the past several months, steadily declining in health until she had to be intubated for 3 weeks. In all that time, my mum's faith never wavered. It was amazing to see her Faith in action. It is one thing to serve God when everything is going well, its another to do the same when it's not. She questioned naturally,asking me what was happening to her but she never doubted in her God to deliver her. She foud it unbelievable she who was always so strong for others was dependent on others to feed her. Once during one of my visits, she heard me crying in her hospital room as I was about to leave. She looked at me and asked me in a surprised voice, what was wrong. I looked at her incredulously. She told me that God has healed her and told me to not worry. That's my mum, still comforting us in the midst of her own pain. She is exactly as God named her, 'JOY'. She made everything fun, loved deeply and prayed much. For as long as I remember, mum woke up ro pray every day from 3am to 6am. Every single day. She led a life of praying and fasting. When home, she and her friends cooked meals for the less fortunate in their neighborhood. They would buy the things they needed, and spent the entire day cooking and serving meals. She loved God deeply and was always ready to tell you of how much she did. Always with a word of encouragement, she was who you wanted to talk to when things are not going your way. A devoted mother who was never ashamed to let people know how much she loved and fought for us. A loving sister, a generous friend. I enjoyed being her Voltron, her defender. She would call me and 'report' others to me. She enjoyed my common sense and I enjoyed her optimism. We comforted and consoled each other. And she so made me laugh because we both had such a different perspective and that made our relationship so lovely Thankfully, mummy you are finally getting some rest, this past 3 months have not been easy for you. But I am so proud of you, you never let go of God and He has certainly healed you as you knew he would. One of the Catholic priests who used to visit with mum, praying and given her communion, said an awesome thing. He said, "there are 2 types of healing, a permanent one and a temporary one. In temorary healing, God heals a person here on this earth for a time , but eventually they still pass on. In permanent healing, God takes them to him and they never feel again, pain or suffering." Now mummy, you have no more pain, you can move and breathe. More importantly, you can fly as the Angel of God you were created to be. Rest in peace momma, we will be fine. Thank you for your constant and deep love and laughter. Give daddy all our love. Till we all meet again, Adieu ❤️.

Mon, 25 Mar 2024 08:15:53 +0000

Kai!! I still can’t believe that my lovely, wonderful mum is gone!! I still find myself reaching for the phone to call her. Gone from us, gone from cancer.

Throughout her journey with cancer, I saw her struggling to make sense of what was happening to her. Esophageal cancer is an aggressive one and for most patients, by the time they…Read More

A tribute to a vivacious, witty, and an amazing Aunt. Years ago, when I was in between getting a place to stay, she asked me... no, she told me to move into her house that it was my home too. And true to her words, Mummy took my sister, and I like her very own; the times her daughter Nwando comes around, one would never know who is the biological daughter. That's the kind of beautiful soul Mummy had. She was like a lioness who protected her cubs fiercely. I remember one time I was travelling to the US. She entered the kitchen and prepared one of my favourite foods of hers and insisted I eat it before travelling. She was so selfless, accommodating, and generous. Even after we moved out, Mummy continuously checked up on us to know how we were doing. "Uchechee (as she fondly calls me), how is my Bekee( what she calls my daughter)? When I needed a nanny, Mummy took it upon herself to get one for me because she was worried about how I was coping. As I write this and remember these fond memories of her,I can't help but smile and cry at the same time. I know I have lost someone so precious and unique, but I thank God for the blessing of knowing and having her as my favourite aunt of all times (literally). "Mummy," we miss you lots...coming to the house without seeing you is still so strange and saddening. We love you, but God loves you much more, and we have the consolation that you are now resting with our Lord Jesus. Uche Jennifer Ani (nee Ene)

Sun, 24 Mar 2024 22:23:49 +0000

A tribute to a vivacious, witty, and an amazing Aunt.

Years ago, when I was in between getting a place to stay, she asked me… no, she told me to move into her house that it was my home too. And true to her words, Mummy took my sister, and I like her very own; the times her daughter Nwando comes around, one would never know who is the…Read More

Penning down this tribute is so surreal and heart wrenching, It’s hard to comprehend that you’re no longer here with us. The memories of when we were young fills my mind just like yesterday. How we moved around in matching outfits that mama always made for us, as people often mistake us as twins. Our visits to Uncle StayBright studios, as his amateur models, strutting around like we owned the place, posing for the camera with all the confidence in the world. These memories are etched in my mind forever You always had a burst of infectious energy, how you light up the room with your hearty and husky laughter, always the life of the party and readily to do exciting and fun things. You had a special ability to make the most mundane moments unforgettable. The queen of drama, never a dull moment with you!! “Sister-me” (as we called ourselves), I often pick up my phone to call and catch up with you, and remember you are no longer here with us. Our last conversation was at your hospital bed. You were making plans to come back for mama’s birthday. You were still organising and taking care of everyone as you always do. Sister-me, I deeply miss you, we all miss you. Though you may no longer be physically present, but you continually live on in our hearts. We carry your laughter, your love, and your essence in our hearts always. Until we meet again, dear sister, know that you are deeply loved and profoundly missed. Rest in peace, my dearest. Sophia Nnena Ene

Sun, 24 Mar 2024 22:23:23 +0000

Penning down this tribute is so surreal and heart wrenching, It’s hard to comprehend that you’re no longer here with us.

The memories of when we were young fills my mind just like yesterday. How we moved around in matching outfits that mama always made for us, as people often mistake us as twins.
Our visits to Uncle StayBright studios, as…Read More

TRIBUTE TO MY BELOVED COUSIN - NKECHI The Scripture reminds us of the brevity of life, describing our life as a vapor, its span as a hand breadth, its strength as fragile, and its expectancy as three scores and ten years. Like a lightening jolt, this stark reality hit us mercilessly with regards to my beloved cousin Joy Nkechi Chidobem. We are still in shock, having spoken to her shortly before her demise. When she developed this strange cough some months ago, none of us saw it as a life threatening ailment. Her children abroad insisted on a thorough medical checkup, the results of which gave us grave concerns. We stormed heaven with our prayers for healing, asking God to heal her promptly and spare her life. Chain prayers were offered for her, but it appears God wanted her home, having served Him and mankind very well. Nkechi was as bold as a lion, but also as humble as a dove. She was honest, straightforward, given to service, and religiously devotional. She was indeed our family's "nnukwu Ada" who played that role very soldierly. She also had an outreach ministry, feeding poor and indigent folks. We praise God that she remained faithful to our Lord Jesus Christ till the end. We now pray our Heavenly Father to comfort all her loved ones, especially Ezinne, her 97 years old mother, the children, who are now without father and mother, and us all her siblings. May God grant all the comfort, grace, and fortitude to bear the painful loss, in Jesus's name. AMEN The Very Rev'd Prof. Chinedu Nebo, CON, NPOM, FNSE, FNMS, FMSN, FNIPE, FNATE, FNAEng, FNIMMM. Former Nigeria's Minister of Power, Former Vice Chancellor of UNN and FUOYE, Currently, Vice Chancellor, University on the Niger

Mon, 18 Mar 2024 21:27:09 +0000

TRIBUTE TO MY BELOVED COUSIN – NKECHI

The Scripture reminds us of the brevity of life, describing our life as a vapor, its span as a hand breadth, its strength as fragile, and its expectancy as three scores and ten years. Like a lightening jolt, this stark reality hit us mercilessly with regards to my beloved cousin Joy Nkechi Chidobem. We are…Read More

Saying goodbye to a beautiful soul-Aunty Joy Chidobem My aunty Joy was such a special woman. You could tell once you were around her. She was a very strong woman of faith. a great follower of Jesus Christ after God’s heart. She would call me often and say Ada , you know you are my favorite. She would always speak about keeping in touch and keeping our family bonds strong. She and my mom were very close as she was with my dad as well. In recent years, each time I went to Nigeria through Lagos I would make sure to stop and see her and of course she was the excellent host with lots of food and drinks waiting for me. One of the ways we communicated was via chat and she would always let me know when she had arrived in my part of the world. She would send a message and say “I have arrived in life and direct!” I am in Nneka’s home or I am with Chichi. We prayed together lots of times in the recent years as she was a mighty prayer warrior and her children were her prayer points, never shy to ask for me to pray about any issue. I loved her for that. and like clock work, each time she was in the states she would ask for each of my siblings' numbers so she would reach out and call them to let them know she was around anytime she came to visit my cousins. My cousin ChiChi lived in Minneapolis and aunty Joy was a mother who loved all her children deeply. She raised them all with the strength of a mighty woman of God. When my dad her “oke ogo” passed my aunty was a great support. As recently as 2022 a year after his death she sent me a message to say “ADA a mass was celebrated for Professor Chiweyite Ejike in our church St Alphonsus Church Minneapolis on 6th September May his soul rest in perfect peace” always caring and intentional in her relationships. It’s so hard to write this but as I review my Chats with her in which she will always start with..ADA my dear… I am filled with a sense of comfort from the Holy Spirit as she was a lady who lived her life filled with Joy and intentionality to keep her relationships rich and full. Our last time together was at a family wedding and I am so happy for those memories. We hugged, we ate, we laughed, we danced and we were happy. An elegant lady always full of JOY! Rest in perfect peace my dearest sweet aunty. You have left a great legacy in your children and we are all grateful to God for a beautiful and blessed life well lived. We celebrate your life and continue to rest in the bosom of your Lord. Your Favorite-Adaweze Ejike-Maduakor

Mon, 18 Mar 2024 21:26:32 +0000

Saying goodbye to a beautiful soul-Aunty Joy Chidobem

My aunty Joy was such a special woman. You could tell once you were around her. She was a very strong woman of faith. a great follower of Jesus Christ after God’s heart.

She would call me often and say Ada , you know you are my favorite. She would always speak about keeping in touch and k…Read More

Grandma Joy truly lived up to her name and more. She was a light to not only her family, but to everyone around her. No matter the situation Grandma was always strong, joyous, and confident that the Grace of God was upon everything that she did, and It was. Grandma was my inspiration to remain strong in my faith as she had and always encouraged me to live up to my middle name, her namesake, Joy. I will gravely miss all of the laughter that we had shared, especially while making chin-chin, our dances, and our songs. I will especially miss the walks and exercises we did and the talks we had while doing them but I am grateful to God that I have the blessing of these memories to cherish forever. I miss you so, so much Grandma but I know that you are dancing and singing pain-free with our Lord!! I love you eternally Grandma💗💗💗

Sun, 17 Mar 2024 18:44:18 +0000

Grandma Joy truly lived up to her name and more. She was a light to not only her family, but to everyone around her. No matter the situation Grandma was always strong, joyous, and confident that the Grace of God was upon everything that she did, and It was. Grandma was my inspiration to remain strong in my faith as she had and always encouraged me…Read More

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Sat, 16 Mar 2024 11:43:50 +0000

Ha, mummy is gone! My supporter at the top, my greatest cheerleader! This is unbelievable. Chai, it is too heavy for me. Since you left, writing this piece has been the hardest thing I had to do, because I had to confront my feelings to be able to do this. Ebuka and Isabelle are just looking at me, wondering why I'm balling so hard, they don't understand, so let me try and be strong for them. It is hard, but, this is what you had to do all these years, since Daddy died 23 years ago...be strong for all of us. And you were; without a doubt, without a thought for yourself, without a moment to catch your breath. Who would have thought, that that day I took you to the airport would be the last time I would see you, waving at you, as you were wheeled into the gates! Ah this life just has a way of throwing one the widest curve ball, hmmmm this one hard o. My greatest consolation has been those few times I was able to make you smile, make you happy, give back just a tiny bit of all that you gave, to me and to others. During my most trying times, you stood strong by me; always inspiring me, cheering me on, praying for me and sharpening my faith. You are mightily blessed indeed. You have fought the good fight, you have finished the race, you have kept the faith. All that is left now is the crown of righteousness, which the Lord, the righteous Judge, will award to you on that day-- and not only to you, but also to all who have longed for his appearing. ( 2 Tim. 4: 7-8) Mummy the Bold! Mummy the unafraid! You were not afraid to tread where lions could not. That was you. Agwu nwanyi! So happy, so joyful, very content; That was you. Drama Queen personified! Ahhh! That one, you had no match o. That was indeed you. Lover of good things, finery, class; that was you. Nwa Mama! Nwa Mary! Surely and Proudly! Hmmm, there was no middle ground with that. That was definitely you. Daughter of the Most High! Friend of Jesus. You always said that Jesus calls you My Special One! This your going, is still a mixed bag of feelings for me. I know I should be happy, I should be celebrating, but how come i don't feel like it? God knows I am grateful for giving me a mother like you. I am grateful for your strength, your tenacity, your spirituality, your motherly care to me and all those around you. We did not lose you o. We gained an angel. Death did not take you. How can! It has no such power over you. You dusted your feet when you had had enough, packed your bags and checked out on your birthday. Hahahaha! Who does that? Na only you o! Mummy of life! And God sanctioned it. My consolation now is that, all the peace you deserve which the world could not give you, you have finally gotten at the hands of God. You are constantly in the face of God now, before His awesome presence. How glorious! Rest in peace Mummykus. Your dearest Daughter Mrs. Nwando Lynda Tai Okakpu

Sat, 16 Mar 2024 11:33:47 +0000

Ha, mummy is gone! My supporter at the top, my greatest cheerleader! This is unbelievable. Chai, it is too heavy for me.

Since you left, writing this piece has been the hardest thing I had to do, because I had to confront my feelings to be able to do this. Ebuka and Isabelle are just looking at me, wondering why I’m balling so hard, they don’t…Read More

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Sat, 16 Mar 2024 10:00:04 +0000

My lovely, wonderful mum recently passed away after a brief bout with cancer. Throughout this journey, I saw her struggling to make sense of what was happening to her. Esophageal cancer is an aggressive one and for most patients, by the time they experience symptoms, it has spread already. That was the case with mum, by the time we found out, it had spread to her lungs and liver. Was still dancing, looked healthy and sounded fine. Her only symptom, was a cough that was not constant and she said it abated when she used cough drops. She did not lose weight, neither was there a history of family cancer until now. None of us thought of cancer. How could we? Her primary complaint was her blood pressure and even her inconsistent cough was attributed to her blood pressure medications. Her mother is still alive at 97 years old and my great grandfather lived to be 99. No history of smoking nor drinking. So how did we find out? An elevated blood pressure necessitated an ER visit and a look at her chest xrays prompted the physician to request a CT scan. That was less than 3 months ago. She fought valiantly, fought as a warrior. She wasn't given much chance of surviving. But along with the cancer, she had several infections including covid and also developed blood clot. She needed several blood transfusions, and has been in the hospital for the past several months, steadily declining in health until she had to be intubated for 3 weeks. In all that time, my mum's faith never wavered. It was amazing to see her Faith in action. It is one thing to serve God when everything is going well, its another to do the same when it's not. She questioned naturally,asking me what was happening to her but she never doubted in her God to deliver her. She foud it unbelievable she who was always so strong for others was dependent on others to feed her. Once during one of my visits, she heard me crying in her hospital room as I was about to leave. She looked at me and asked me in a surprised voice, what was wrong. I looked at her incredulously. She told me that God has healed her and told me to not worry. That's my mum, still comforting us in the midst of her own pain. She is exactly as God named her, 'JOY'. She made everything fun, loved deeply and prayed much. For as long as I remember, mum woke up ro pray every day from 3am to 6am. Every single day. She led a life of praying and fasting. When home, she and her friends cooked meals for the less fortunate in their neighborhood. They would buy the things they needed, and spent the entire day cooking and serving meals. She loved God deeply and was always ready to tell you of how much she did. Always with a word of encouragement, she was who you wanted to talk to when things are not going your way. A devoted mother who was never ashamed to let people know how much she loved and fought for us. A loving sister, a generous friend. I enjoyed being her Voltron, her defender. She would call me and 'report' others to me. She enjoyed my common sense and I enjoyed her optimism. We comforted and consoled each other. And she so made me laugh because we both had such a different perspective and that made our relationship so lovely Thankfully, mummy you are finally getting some rest, this past 3 months have not been easy for you. But I am so proud of you, you never let go of God and He has certainly healed you as you knew he would. One of the Catholic priests who used to visit with mum, praying and given her communion, said an awesome thing. He said, "there are 2 types of healing, a permanent one and a temporary one. In temorary healing, God heals a person here on this earth for a time , but eventually they still pass on. In permanent healing, God takes them to him and they never feel again, pain or suffering." Now mummy, you have no more pain, you can move and breathe. More importantly, you can fly as the Angel of God you were created to be. Rest in peace momma, we will be fine. Thank you for your constant and deep love and laughter. Give daddy all our love. Till we all meet again, Adieu ❤️.

Sat, 16 Mar 2024 09:52:51 +0000

My lovely, wonderful mum recently passed away after a brief bout with cancer.

Throughout this journey, I saw her struggling to make sense of what was happening to her. Esophageal cancer is an aggressive one and for most patients, by the time they experience symptoms, it has spread already. That was the case with mum, by the time we found out,…Read More

I first met Joy or ‘mummy,’ whilst studying at Luton University with Chi Chi. Our first encounter was when I came home to see this flamboyant, warm hearted lady poke her head out of Chi Chi’s room, shouting out, “hello, my darling!”, as she beamed from ear to ear and greeted me with her gracious embrace. I went on many mini adventures with them to London and mummy loved to shop for everyone. Upon taking mummy back to the airport on one occasion I recall her being slightly overweight due to all the ‘shopping!’ Ultimately, Chi Chi and I had to open the case out on the floor in the middle of the airport to rearrange things, subsequently in doing so Chi Chi lifted up a box of Coco pops and the contents fell out all over the floor. Mummy’s response was, ‘quick let’s leave the scene of the crime.’ Consequently, after leaving, two baffled security guards approached and stood there scratching their heads! Fast forward 15 years and I was able to meet up with Chi Chi and mummy in Miniasota back in September 2023. There was no change with the way I was greeted and made to feel part of the family once again after so long apart.

Thu, 14 Mar 2024 21:27:52 +0000

I first met Joy or ‘mummy,’ whilst studying at Luton University with Chi Chi. Our first encounter was when I came home to see this flamboyant, warm hearted lady poke her head out of Chi Chi’s room, shouting out, “hello, my darling!”, as she beamed from ear to ear and greeted me with her gracious embrace. I went on many mini adventures with them…Read More

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In loving memory of our Dear Mummy Joy Nkechi Agatha Chidobem I had the pleasure of spending some time with Mummy Joy back in 2014 and 2015 when my dear sister Chinwe was getting married. I flew from London to Minnesota and Mummy Joy made me feel welcome right away. I remember her bright smile and cheeky personality. She was always ready with a word of wisdom or some sound advice. One thing that stuck in my memory was how much she loved the Lord. Every morning, she would come downstairs to watch EWTN, to pray and commune with her Father. I loved that she was so dedicated to her faith. The last time I spoke to Mummy was in October 2022. She was her usual self, so cheerful and upbeat with many kind words to say. I will miss her gentle laughter and warm, kind words. Now she is resting in the bosom of her Loving Father, by His Grace and Mercy, and looking down on all of us. She would be so proud of the legacy that she has left behind, her beautiful children and grandchildren. We miss you and love you, Mummy Joy

Thu, 14 Mar 2024 12:21:03 +0000

In loving memory of our Dear Mummy Joy Nkechi Agatha Chidobem

I had the pleasure of spending some time with Mummy Joy back in 2014 and 2015 when my dear sister Chinwe was getting married. I flew from London to Minnesota and Mummy Joy made me feel welcome right away. I remember her bright smile and cheeky personality. She was always ready with a…Read More

In loving memory of our dear Aunty Mommy Joy Nkechi Chidobem In loving memory of our beloved Mommy Joy Chidobem. You always brought warmth, love, joy, and laughter into every moment shared with you. Your kindness knew no bounds, and your gentle spirit brought joy and love to everyone you encountered. Memories of your infectious laughter and comforting hugs will forever be cherished, a timeless reminder of the love you showered unconditionally. Though you may have bid farewell to this world, your spirit lives on in the countless lives you touched, leaving behind a legacy of love and compassion that will endure through generations. As we mourn your loss, we find solace in the memories we shared, knowing that you will always remain a cherished presence in our hearts. Until we meet again, we carry your memory with us. Rest peacefully, dear Aunty, knowing that your love has left an indelible mark in our hearts. Lots of love, Arinze and Chinenye Nebo Ikeme and Family

Wed, 13 Mar 2024 13:46:45 +0000

In loving memory of our dear Aunty Mommy Joy Nkechi Chidobem

In loving memory of our beloved Mommy Joy Chidobem. You always brought warmth, love, joy, and laughter into every moment shared with you. Your kindness knew no bounds, and your gentle spirit brought joy and love to everyone you encountered.

Memories of your infectious laughter and…Read More

A Tribute to the late Lady Joy Chidobem (Nee Chime) My dearest Joy Lady we are very grieved that you have left us and passed on to glory to be at the right hand of the Lord God in heaven. You as my darling late brother Supac’s wife were my darling wife and bossom friend until death did us part. We spent so many happy years together and looked forward to many more years to come. But we must submit to the will of God and I want to promise you that we your family will take very good care of your children who are also my very own children that you left behind. We will continue praying that God will provide for them, support them and be there for them always. We all pray that your gentle heart may continue to rest in perfect peace as you are seated at the right hand of our Father Lord God in the bossom of Jesus for ever and ever AMEN. Nono Esomubadiye Nwakego Grace Ejike

Wed, 13 Mar 2024 13:39:59 +0000

A Tribute to the late Lady Joy Chidobem (Nee Chime)

My dearest Joy Lady we are very grieved that you have left us and passed on to glory to be at the right hand of the Lord God in heaven. You as my darling late brother Supac’s wife were my darling wife and bossom friend until death did us part. We spent so many happy years together and looked f…Read More

Epitome of Womanhood After losing my mum at an early age, I have been extremely fortunate and seemingly privileged to have had Grandma as my mother. As her daughter-in-law, the kids and I are always eager to be in her presence, she has the personality of a complete woman worthy of emulation, she is fierce in loving, kind in heart, and strong in the practice of her faith. She is the mother I never had, and I always wanted. The painful news of her passing away in the early hours of that Sunday morning of her birthday has left me devastated and in extreme grief. My family struggles with the reality of her absence daily. Grandma is always very lovely, and there was never a dull moment with her, She always wanted to solve issues, she was truly a problem-solver, always trying to solve people's problems, and I can’t place the source of her energy because she hardly eats, hardly sleeps, but was very active and strong, physically present and involved in all the same places I also found myself to be. Like the biblical shepherd, she always protected her sheep, gathering them from far and wide, and calling them home. With clarity, I remember whenever I called her, her soft and gentle voice would ask first; May...is there any problem? that's the 1st thing she would say, asking more questions about my well-being, the kids' growth, and my overall care, anxious to solve people’s problems; to her, discussing her own problems was so typically unheard of. She goes shopping and buys things for me and the family, sends money to me unannounced, buying the kids beautiful clothes, and toys. She doesn’t share the nature of a typical Nigerian mother-in-law, she is very loving, caring, supporting, and beautifully multi-talented. Grandma never waits for me to call her, and she always responds anytime I call her, but whenever she calls, she would never complain a single word! She has an enormous heart, cooking and feeding people she doesn't even know in her neighborhood with her great family's delightful recipes, everyone around her always had something to eat and drink. Whenever money is sent to her to cater for her expenses and needs; she looks for others to uplift intentionally and gives them the money. Grandma dislikes to see anybody suffer or lack anything as long as there is something she can do about it, more often than not, she would borrow from people who had and give to people who didn’t have! She would always go the extra mile for them. She prays a lot and is a prayer warrior, having a special dedication and love to her Lord and Saviour, as well as to the Marian movement of our Virgin Mother Mary, she prays for everyone around her, offering decades of the Holy Rosary to people she has contacts with, family, friends and loved ones; most times forgets to pray for even herself, grandma taught me that there is always a good reward serving God. I could go on endlessly sharing the good memories of the beautiful relationship we had, the happy moments, and her comforting smiles, she never gets angry for any reason. Grandma, I love you so much and you will always be in my heart. I pray for you and live by the lessons you taught. I miss you!!! Love May Chidobem

Tue, 12 Mar 2024 21:30:09 +0000

Epitome of Womanhood
After losing my mum at an early age, I have been extremely fortunate and seemingly privileged to have had Grandma as my mother.
As her daughter-in-law, the kids and I are always eager to be in her presence, she has the personality of a complete woman worthy of emulation, she is fierce in loving, kind in heart, and strong in…Read More

Mummy, i still find it hard to believe that you are gone. We prayed and trusted God that you will be fine, However the omniscient God who knows all, called you to his blossom , hence i cry no more but rejoice that you are with him in heaven and will continue your prayers for us all. Mummy, you lived an exemplary christian life and your attitude has drawn many to love and appreciate you sincerely. Your laughter and smile brightens up any where you are because the are genuine and infectious. I remember the day you came to Abraham Adesanya, and you spent almost the whole day in church praying without Food nor water, i was challenged and told myself if mummy can do it then i need to take my prayer life more seriously, and have a personal time for the lord. We thank you for standing in the gap in the place of prayers always . If love and money could bring you back, trust me , you will still be with us today,but your assignment here on earth is done and we know you will do great in heaven. We miss dearly ma. Lynda Ngozi Nnadi

Tue, 12 Mar 2024 21:25:22 +0000

Mummy, i still find it hard to believe that you are gone. We prayed and trusted God that you will be fine, However the omniscient God who knows all, called you to his blossom , hence i cry no more but rejoice that you are with him in heaven and will continue your prayers for us all.

Mummy, you lived an exemplary christian life and your attitude…Read More

My dearest mummy Mrs Joy Nkechi Agatha Chidobem. You were a blessing to those who knew you, with your selfless spirit, gentle prayers, and devotion to the rosary. You were a mother to all, offering comfort and care to those around you. You were a light in this world, and your memory will be a comfort to us all. You will be greatly missed, but your legacy of kindness and compassion will live on. We will always remember you for your generosity, compassion, and love. You were a bright light in this world, and your goodness will live on in the hearts of those you touched. May you rest in peace, and may your family find comfort in knowing you were so loved. Thank you for the joy you brought to this world, and for the example you set for us all. May we carry your kindness and compassion forward in our own lives. Adios mummy❤️ From:Eugenia Madueke ,Mrs Nwando Okakpu's friend

Tue, 12 Mar 2024 21:23:39 +0000

My dearest mummy Mrs Joy Nkechi Agatha Chidobem.

You were a blessing to those who knew you, with your selfless spirit, gentle prayers, and devotion to the rosary. You were a mother to all, offering comfort and care to those around you. You were a light in this world, and your memory will be a comfort to us all. You will be greatly missed, but…Read More

Grandma, I don't even know what to say. There are so many things you were supposed to be around for and it kills me to know you won't be there. I think of you everyday and all the memories we have. I wish there were more everyday. I wish there would be a time in the year I would look forward to, knowing you were coming to visit. Grams, there are too many words to describe you but I know for one, beautiful. I know I can speak for my siblings when I say we enjoyed your presence like no other. I miss the dancing, laughing, and singing with you. Playing loud nigerian music and doing your little 2 step dance. Not a day goes by without me thinking of you or a night that I don't pray about you. You were my special grams and I was your baby chimaks. No one loved me the way you did grandma and that will leave a hole that can never be filled. I am so sorry to your family and your children grandma and I wish I could just make everything better for everyone. You were so funny, loving, understanding, compassionate, and so much more. I still cannot believe you are not here anymore. That I won't see you for Christmas, or Thanksgiving, or the summer before each school year. I will forever cherish those times grams. I will miss cooking for you, and turning the tv to EWTN, and cleaning my room for you. You always showed your appreciation and happiness for when I would do something as little as cooking or cleaning. I miss many things about you grandma that can't even be put into words. Lord knows I will miss and love you forever.❤️ Chiamaka

Tue, 12 Mar 2024 21:22:41 +0000

Grandma, I don’t even know what to say. There are so many things you were supposed to be around for and it kills me to know you won’t be there. I think of you everyday and all the memories we have. I wish there were more everyday. I wish there would be a time in the year I would look forward to, knowing you were coming to visit. Grams, there are…Read More

TRIBUTE TO OUR ICON – BIG MAMA We call her Big Mama or Momsy depending on the mood in the house. My first encounter with Big Mama was during our journey to becoming family: the solemnization of Mary Friday and Chijioke Chidobem. It was a relief and noteworthy that our daughter was marrying into a decent Igbo Christian home. I will share two significant exemplary encounters of who Big Mama was to us (Lady Joy Nkechi Agatha Chidobem) As the Eldest and the Mother Representative in my home. I was unable to make the traditional wedding held in our ancestral home. It is cultural to send representatives, in-laws, and siblings. The feedback I received was pleasant. Everyone attested to the fact that she welcomed our daughter with exotic joy, receiving her into her home while glorifying the entire family. Not many women are capable of doing this. I would also like to acknowledge that this is a testament to our in-laws. The reception and warmth we received on the day of the wedding is the same till date. We are honored to be a part of such beautiful people, rich in culture and etiquette. Thank you all for the peace and honor shared between both our homes. For most mothers-in-law, there is always “drama” and a signature undertone of subtle conflict, especially during wedding ceremonies and Omugwo. Momsy was always classy, and she carried herself with great panache and a dignified demeanor dignifiable of a lady. During the white wedding, she bought and sent me my orange-coloured traditional aso-ebi, a gesture I will never forget. The only thing left was to take me to a couture designer to fabricate my dress. Big Mama was always full of surprises. She never accommodated dull moments, and her admiration for art, language, and culture perhaps gave her a deeper essence to live life to the fullest. Her presence brought joy, and she embodied peaceful living. It was a thrill to have Big Mama over during the Omugwo of our first grandchild, Tonia Chidobem. I love how she loves the grandkids and all of us around her. she spends quality time, she is always in the moment, savouring and enjoying every conversation with everyone. Big Mama was never afraid to lead or proffer solutions to challenges. She took challenges head-on. I feel pained that we didn’t get the opportunity to fully celebrate our ICON. She was a good example of what a true mother and mother-in-law should be. Perhaps, it’s important to pause and reflect on the fact that we should all live more intentionally, checking up on one another. I will miss Momsy, I will miss some good cooking and lovely engaging conversations, I will miss her perspective on issues, and the ice cream trips. Indeed, I will miss all the blessings of home. Adieu! Sweet Mother! We may have lost you in the physical, but your legacies, teachings, and presence are here with us. We feel blessed knowing that Heaven has gained yet another angel. Thank you for your leadership and bold perspective, always guiding us with light and love. You will be greatly missed! We love you, Big Mama! May your gentle soul continue to rest in the bosom of the Lord! Amen!!! Pharm. Princess Uduak Ndubuisi For: The Friday Edem Family

Tue, 12 Mar 2024 21:21:15 +0000

TRIBUTE TO OUR ICON – BIG MAMA
We call her Big Mama or Momsy depending on the mood in the house.
My first encounter with Big Mama was during our journey to becoming family: the solemnization of Mary Friday and Chijioke Chidobem.
It was a relief and noteworthy that our daughter was marrying into a decent Igbo Christian home.
I will share two…Read More

A tribute to my darling Aunty Joy! I want to share a story about my aunty Joy, that some of you may not know. She was the first aunty of mine to marry one of my uncles, Uncle Sylva who we all called uncle Supac. My mom being his older sister, so of course I was one of her flower girls at their wedding along with her sister Nkiru Chime. She made an impression on me, my aunty Joy was aways dressed very fashionably back then in the 1970’s and I thought of her as my ‘modern’ aunty. Aunty Joy as we would say marammma nwanyi, was a beautiful, tall, classy and deeply spiritual woman, known for her outgoing and cheerful personality and her devotion to her Christian faith. She was the life of the party, and whenever she showed up at our family gatherings, you will know that she had arrived. Aunty Joy was a natural organizer always taking care of everyone. My mother, Nono Nwakego Grace Ejike (Nee Chidobem), her sister-in-law, affectionately called her “Joy Lady.” My late father, Chiweyite Aguowulu Ejike, her brother-in-law, shared a special nickname with her, showing the close bond they shared. Aunty Joy was always preoccupied with the well-being of others, especially my late uncle Supac, whom she lovingly cared for. I believe that God is now taking care of her in eternal life, and she continues to be a guiding angel for her beloved children and us here on earth. Aunty Joy’s beautiful soul was like a whirlwind, bringing joy and happiness to all who knew her. May her gentle soul rest in peace with Uncle Supac until we meet again. Nene Ne-emelie Ejike-Ogwara

Tue, 12 Mar 2024 21:16:26 +0000

A tribute to my darling Aunty Joy!

I want to share a story about my aunty Joy, that some of you may not know. She was the first aunty of mine to marry one of my uncles, Uncle Sylva who we all called uncle Supac. My mom being his older sister, so of course I was one of her flower girls at their wedding along with her sister Nkiru Chime. She made…Read More

Tribute to Joy Nkechi Agatha Chidobem by Chimdi Chime (Niece) Joy Nkechi Agatha Chidobem or as I call her, aunty Lagos was the eldest sister to my father Chika O. Chime and, to me, a wonderful aunty. Aunty Lagos was a light you wanted to cling unto, she always brought vibrance and a positive uplifting energy whenever she walked into a room. She inspired me in so many ways, to be the love you wanted to receive, to be compassionate and to live an intentional and dedicated life to God and to the work you’ve set out to do. She supported me in everything I did, even when distance was a barrier, I was reminded that she always kept tabs on me and was rooting for me. I have no doubt she continues to do so now that she is with the Lord. That’s the woman she was, an exceptional mother, an incredible aunt and ever loving and supportive sister a phenomenal grandmother, a gift to humanity now and forever. I’m blessed to have had a precious aunt such as herself.

Tue, 12 Mar 2024 21:14:56 +0000

Tribute to Joy Nkechi Agatha Chidobem by Chimdi Chime (Niece)
Joy Nkechi Agatha Chidobem or as I call her, aunty Lagos was the eldest sister to my father Chika O. Chime and, to me, a wonderful aunty. Aunty Lagos was a light you wanted to cling unto, she always brought vibrance and a positive uplifting energy whenever she walked into a room. She…Read More

Tribute to A Special Aunty My deepest condolences to the entire Chidobem family on the loss of an amazing mother, sister, aunt and grandmother. Aunty Nkechi Joy Chidobem was a beautiful soul and I’m sad she had to leave us this soon. Her bright spirit and enthusiasm will always be remembered. My prayers are with the entire family. May her gentle soul rest in peace. 🙏🕊️ Signed: Dr. Thywill Chime(Niece) (Daughter of Chief Chika Chime)

Tue, 12 Mar 2024 21:13:53 +0000

Tribute to A Special Aunty
My deepest condolences to the entire Chidobem family on the loss of an amazing mother, sister, aunt and grandmother. Aunty Nkechi Joy Chidobem was a beautiful soul and I’m sad she had to leave us this soon. Her bright spirit and enthusiasm will always be remembered.
My prayers are with the entire family.
May her g…Read More

My Tribute to My Dear Aunty Lagos From Pearl Chime

Tue, 12 Mar 2024 21:08:44 +0000

My Tribute to My Dear Aunty Lagos

From
Pearl Chime

TRIBUTE TO A DARLING SISTER Yes, a very difficult task, indeed – having to write this tribute to a darling and quintessential sister: “Sister Me”. Of a fact, I started writing this tribute in my heart a couple of weeks ago but my courage kept failing me to pen it down and now, one day after the closing date for the submission of tributes, I just have to start and finish it, all in one day, even if I have to stop thus far. The point is that I am still battling with the fact that Sister Me is dead, as in that she actually died; and that is because she is still very much alive in my mind, possibly just that she is on the other side of an invisible dividing wall, hence I am still referring to her in the present tense in my mind. So much so that I had to ask the T-shirt vendor to take out the word, Late, in the design. Nkechi was just an epitome of what anybody would want in a sister and very truly so. Her arrival in any home or gathering symbolised warmth; joy; energy; camaraderie and all. Having been my elder sister for all the years God has so far blessed me with, it is obvious that the story of our relationship is a quantum one. Starting from our infantile years, when she had to guide and protect us as her juniors; being the first child of Davidson Okonkwo and Comfort Uzoamaka CHIME. Fast forward to the year 1976 when Nkechi wedded, she made my first pair of suit which I donned for her wedding! Career-wise, it was this Sister Me that guided me up to the point of not just becoming an Accountant, but a professional one at that. And when it was time for my wedding, her whole family, including the husband, who was the Chairman of the wedding reception, relocated to Jos, Plateau State, for the event. Though married to ”Supark” in far away Amansiodo, Nkechi championed and resolved any issue/matter that concerned any member of Davidson Chime’s Family. She was quick to remind all of us in any of our family meetings of how our late father enjoined her to ensure to keep the family together on his sick bed at the Amigbo General Hospital in Imo State during the Biafra/Nigeria Civil War. The old man eventually passed on January 6, 1969 and his legacies still live on and on – thanks to Sister Nkechi A-Chime(as she is fondly called) as she kept faith with that fatherly injunction. Again, fast-forward to October 2023 and it gets even clearer why this tribute has continued to be a great pain in my heart and I am trusting God for the fortitude to bear this colossal loss. I was in constant touch with “Sister Me” in far away Minnesota all through October discussing and finalizing all the arrangements for the several social events lined up by the family for the Christmas holidays, including our Mother’s 97 th Birthday celebrations. Nkechi actually chose the design of the cake that was made for Ezinne’s birthday party and she also requested that I make hotel reservations for all her Sons-in-law, who will be attending the several events from far and wide. We were all expectant and awaiting her return in November to kick-start the 2023 Yuletide activities. Then the devil struck and before we could say Jack, the worst happened. And because every conversation and discussion is still fresh on my mind, the whole issue of Nkechi’s passing still looks and sounds like an expensive joke to me but alas, that is the naked fact we have to face. However, we truly and truly take consolation in the fact that Nkechi lived a jolly good life and accomplished so much within the life span which God graciously allocated to her. Starting from her all-round commitment to the Davidson Chime’s family in Udi Town and cutting across to her infectious love, pious life and rock-solid presence in the Sylvanus Chidobem’s family in Amansiodo, Oghe, her good deeds and legacies continue to speak for her. That she will be sorely missed is a huge understatement but we are consoled by the knowledge that she is comfortably seated by her Maker, our everlasting God, and constantly praying for us till we meet again to part no more. Good Night Darling Sister and Continue to Rest in Perfect Peace in The Bosom of the Lord. Always in Our Hearts and Fondly remembered: Chief Sir Chika Ozo Chime(Jnr Brother) Ome-Ise 1 of Udi Ancient Kingdom for: the entire COC family. Friday April 19, 2024.

Tue, 12 Mar 2024 21:07:24 +0000

TRIBUTE TO A DARLING SISTER

Yes, a very difficult task, indeed – having to write this tribute to a darling and quintessential sister: “Sister Me”.

Of a fact, I started writing this tribute in my heart a couple of weeks ago but my courage kept failing me to pen it down and now, one day after the closing date for the submission of tribu…Read More

One of the most thoughtful, strong and resilient people I know, she inspired me to stay motivated in the things I love. She was not one to believe in the idea of giving up and rarely ever lost faith in herself other people or God and that was what made her so special. Some of my favorite memories with her happened recently as over the summer, I would I take her to church multiple times during the week and I enjoyed the talks we had on the way there and back

Tue, 12 Mar 2024 16:25:54 +0000

One of the most thoughtful, strong and resilient people I know, she inspired me to stay motivated in the things I love.
She was not one to believe in the idea of giving up and rarely ever lost faith in herself other people or God and that was what made her so special. Some of my favorite memories with her happened recently as over the summer,…Read More

You know I never knew Aunty's name....Aunty Joy! What a fitting name for a joyful lady! Growing up I came to your house for years, i lived down the road on Ogunlana drive and i remember i always felt welcomed when ever i visited. I felt peaceful when ever i was at your home. Blessed memories of you and all the kids, i was always smiling when i witnesses your interactions with Nneka and her siblings. You have left a beautiful legacy behind, i hope you know you left an imprint in the hearts of all you came in contact with. Rest well Aunty 💜

Mon, 11 Mar 2024 23:28:23 +0000

You know I never knew Aunty’s name….Aunty Joy! What a fitting name for a joyful lady! Growing up I came to your house for years, i lived down the road on Ogunlana drive and i remember i always felt welcomed when ever i visited. I felt peaceful when ever i was at your home. Blessed memories of you and all the kids, i was always smiling when i…Read More

Farewell Message to Mama Joy Nkechi Agatha Chidobem The Entire Resource Management (RM) Team of the World Bank Country Office in Abuja, Nigeria expresses their condolences to the entire family of the Chidobems, and Chimes on the passing of our mother, grandmother, and Sister of our beloved Boss – Sir Chika Ozo Chime, The Ome Ise of Udi Town. The news of your passing came as a shock. We joined the prayer line for divine intervention for your quick turnaround, but God thought it better to gain your eternal rest. Our beloved boss of 33 years was truly proud of his strongly knitted immediate and extended family, he never failed to talk about them in glorying terms. Mummy Chidobem was a regular mention, the aristocratic lady of the Chime’s family, agile, beautiful, energetic, highly productive, undaunting, no nonsense woman. She held the clan and connected everyone. This we witnessed last at Chika Chime Jnr’s wedding. You commanded the show. You made impact in your lifetime; you left indelible marks….. Now you leave a wide void difficult to fill. May God console your family and loved ones, grant them the fortitude to bear the great loss. We pray for the repose of your soul. Your impact and great love for your family speaks long after you are gone. You remain in the hearts of everyone that knew you. Adieu Mama Joy Nkechi Agatha Chidobem. Have your peace in God’s bosom ma. Mrs Abimbola Matt-Ojo, On behalf of the RM Team World Bank Office, Abuja, Nigeria

Sat, 09 Mar 2024 23:24:05 +0000

Farewell Message to Mama Joy Nkechi Agatha Chidobem

The Entire Resource Management (RM) Team of the World Bank Country Office in Abuja, Nigeria expresses their condolences to the entire family of the Chidobems, and Chimes on the passing of our mother, grandmother, and Sister of our beloved Boss – Sir Chika Ozo Chime, The Ome Ise of Udi T…Read More

EULOGY TO A CHAIR LEADER MUMMY JOY NKECHI AGATHA CHIDOBEM It is with heavy heart that I pen down this eulogy to a wonderful woman. A woman of excellence, a dear sister, friend and chair leader Auntie Nkechi Joy Chidobem. You were a woman of substance, intellect, insightful, articulate, organized, of kind disposition, friendly and a go getter. You were always on the move, active, effective and never left what can be done now for a minute longer. Impossibility is not in your lexicon. Your presence and approach to issues has profound effects and inspires confidence and winning spirit among your siblings and all of us that have come to know and associate with you. You were like the proverbial mother hen to all, guiding, directing and taking hard decisions when occasion so demands. Above all you stood in the gap for all of us in prayers. Since our part crossed through your younger brother Chika Ozo Chime (Ome-Ise 1) of Udi Ancient Kingdom, you became part of my family and have always shown concern for our welfare and well-being. When the news that you were hospitalized in faraway United States got to me, my first reaction was that nothing can hold you down and that in no time you will be up and running again. Anyone that knows you well would not be surprise at this my position. But how wrong I was, because from that journey you joined the saints triumphant and transited to eternal glory on 14 th January, 2024. As we all know, man naturally is a creature of destiny and when it is time, nothing can really stop it. The strongest fails, the mighty falls and the wise lacks counsel. This was your case my dear sister. The book of Ecclesiastes 3:1-2 summed it up thus “To everything there is a season, a time for every purpose under heaven, a time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant, and a time to pluck what is planted”. Mummy Joy, you came, you saw and you conquered as summed up by St. Paul’s Valedictory in 2 Timothy 4:7-8 “You have fought the good fight, you have finished the race, you have kept the faith. Finally, there is laid up for you the crown of righteousness, which the Lord, the righteous Judge, will give to you on this Day”. You will be profoundly missed my dear big sister. Fare well big Auntie, Fare well Mummy Joy Fare well Ada CU King, till we meet again in paradise. Chief Chidozie Paul Eneh and Family. (Eka Ekpuchi Onwa 1) of Udi Ancient Kingdom

Sat, 09 Mar 2024 17:57:51 +0000

EULOGY TO A CHAIR LEADER MUMMY JOY NKECHI AGATHA CHIDOBEM

It is with heavy heart that I pen down this eulogy to a wonderful woman. A woman of excellence, a dear sister, friend and chair leader Auntie Nkechi Joy Chidobem. You were a woman of substance, intellect, insightful, articulate, organized, of kind disposition, friendly and a go getter.…Read More

Tribute to Big Mummy Big Mummy, Big Aunty or Aunty Lagos as she’s often referred to was one of a kind. Her demeanour never depicted her age at all. She was always so full of life, laughter and playful. When you meet or encounter her, your first impression will be to immediately give her her due respect because of the kind of aura she possesses but at the same time you’ll then realise how approachable and down to earth she is. She had the soul of a teenager. So active and jovial. My last encounter with her was during my Dad’s house opening back in 25th December 2022. A super prayerful and religious woman. Always had her heart in the right place and always wanted what was best for everyone even if it meant her taking the back seat and allowing someone else (like her siblings) to take the lead. She will truly be missed. But we all know she’s in the bosom of the Lord having her well deserved and fully earned final rest. Knowing this gives us great comfort during our mourning period. Rest In Peace Big Mummy! 🥺 From Nnamdi Chime

Sat, 09 Mar 2024 17:49:22 +0000

Tribute to Big Mummy
Big Mummy, Big Aunty or Aunty Lagos as she’s often referred to was one of a kind. Her demeanour never depicted her age at all. She was always so full of life, laughter and playful. When you meet or encounter her, your first impression will be to immediately give her her due respect because of the kind of aura she possesses b…Read More

Tribute To My Dearest Mother-in-law Mrs. Joy Nkechi Chidobem. Dear Mommy (Mother-in-law), thank you for accepting me into your family and for your unflinching love and support. Thank you for all the fasting and prayers for our family, Thank you for your unconditional love for our son Chamberlain U Obialo Jnr, your grandson who you call your sugar with so much joy and love. I can still visualize how your face lights up with so much joy and happiness whenever we bring him and other members of our family to see you at the hospital. I witnessed how desperately you wanted to get well and leave the hospital to be with our family. Even in the face of death, you never wavered in your strong Christian faith and beliefs, you were strong and fearless. We prayed ceaselessly hoping and believing that you will make it home to be with us and travel back to Nigeria to be with your mother, but God called you to be with him. We are heartbroken, our son your sugar still goes to your room every morning hoping to find grandma and to say good morning. We take solace in the fact that you are in a better place where there is no more pain or suffering. Mommy, you are a precious gift from God, our lives are better because of you. Even, though you are with God, we know and believe that you can still see us, I still see your fearlessness and strong Christian faith in my wife (Chinwe) and our Children Ozioma, Nnenna and your sugar Chamberlain Obialo Jnr. Mommy, you were and will always be an integral and cherished part of our family, a guiding light in our journey. Mommy, may you find eternal peace, boundless joy, and the sweetest rest in the realms beyond. You will be greatly missed and never forgotten. We love you and miss you so much. Chamberlain Obialo & Family.

Sat, 09 Mar 2024 17:46:25 +0000

Tribute To My Dearest Mother-in-law Mrs. Joy Nkechi Chidobem.
Dear Mommy (Mother-in-law), thank you for accepting me into your family and for your unflinching love and support. Thank you for all the fasting and prayers for our family, Thank you for your unconditional love for our son…Read More

💕 TALE ABOUT GRANDMA Grandma was a kind woman, she was born in 1950 and died at the age of 74 years, she was all to my Dad, my Mum, my sister, and myself. Grandma bought a pair of beautiful jeans and clothes for my sister and myself, she also bought chocolates and candy for us, she played a lot with us every day and prayed for us. She was gentle and a loving grandma, and when she died, my family cried. My sister and I did not go to school that day. We wish Grandma was still alive. I am going to miss ❤️ her! Love you Grandma! From:😘Your boy Asher John

Sat, 09 Mar 2024 10:23:30 +0000

💕 TALE ABOUT GRANDMA
Grandma was a kind woman, she was born in 1950 and died at the age of 74 years, she was all to my Dad, my Mum, my sister, and myself.
Grandma bought a pair of beautiful jeans and clothes for my sister and myself, she also bought chocolates and candy for us,…Read More

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ALL ABOUT GRANDMA Grandma was always a special woman from the beginning, sure she was old, but she had the biggest heart. She would go to church every day, even if it made her uncomfortable, she was always a follower of God, and she would pray for anyone who could not pray for themselves even in their darkest moments. I remember for my 8th birthday when I walked in through the door and everyone shouted, ‘HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!’ they were all very happy, especially Grandma; she was the happiest for me. She would visit others, whatever it took, like if you were anyone she knew, and you said you were having a wedding, she would always show up. Grandma was a wonderful woman with wonderful Children and grandchildren, she did whatever it took to put things right. She always followed God and prayed in the darkest times, everyone around her felt like her child having the same affection similar to that of their own mothers, she meant everything and anything to all of us, she loved us and we loved her back, that is what it means to be family. I will always miss you dearly! Love you, Grandma!!! Eugenia

Sat, 09 Mar 2024 10:06:49 +0000

ALL ABOUT GRANDMA

Grandma was always a special woman from the beginning, sure she was old, but she had the biggest heart.

She would go to church every day, even if it made her uncomfortable, she was always a follower of God, and she would pray for anyone who could not pray for themselves even in their darkest moments.
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"The Heartbeat of Home: Honoring the Sweetest Mum❤️" "In loving memory of a cherished mother, whose kindness, wisdom, and boundless love illuminated our lives. She will forever remain in our hearts. I truly can not express my pain and grief with your going, I have always wanted to bring the world to your feet for accommodating my multiple nuances. Mummykus is a name I normally use and formed part of our family literature, I tend to add darling when I want to get something from you or borrow from you which in most cases I never return, slow to anger but always swift to come to my defense and protection, as I hold my pen with a shaking hand to write these few words of mine, my eyes swell up in tears flowing ceaselessly because of the sweetest and fondest of memories I have; and those that will remain uncreated, you can't see them, you cannot see my feelings. Who should I turn to now that you're gone? Who do I turn to listen to my silly jokes? who should I call when I need to hear a motherly soothing voice to tell me that all is and will be well? How do I fill the deepened valley in my heart that is full of nails and spikes created by your departure and causing my heart to bleed profusely, who do I cry to for help?... All these questions…no single answer! Daddy left…leaving me as your husband and son, you joined me on that tumultuous road immediately after his passing away, providing care, love, attention, mindfulness, and protection, I never saw a tear from your eyes because you wanted to be strong for me and my siblings. You did an excellent Job! From Chi-boy…to Chijioke.…to Chi-man, your wings of love spread all around me. The kids will miss you terribly... they cry occasionally, most of the beautiful clothes you bought for them remain unpacked as they find it difficult to open their gifts of love from Grandma! We talk about you daily, we pray with you in our hearts…your song…’Oh lord, deliver souls…Oh lord, deliver souls…You’re able! You’re able!! You’re able!!!, a sweet melody that melts even the hardest of hearts remains fresh on their lips. I do not mourn as if I lack faith which is quite frankly the opposite, I weep because my plans for you and I have been shattered. In pain, I celebrate you, Mum, I bless God Almighty for bringing me into this world through you and having the best of life in every sense of it I want you to know that I fought hard for you, I prayed even harder for you and I will always love you oh mummykus! Even in sickness and death, you still pulled your weight and brought people together in prayer, love, and Unity, ‘family’ was your watchword. You have gone to be with our maker, and I know the kind of commotion that will be going on with our Mother Mary and Master Jesus, all the heavenly angels in full jubilation. God help me! Death leaves a heartache no one can heal…Love leaves a memory no one can steal…Forgetting you, never Mummykus…. You live on in our memories… May your beautiful Soul Rest In Perfect Peace! Amen!

Sat, 09 Mar 2024 09:21:47 +0000

“The Heartbeat of Home: Honoring the Sweetest Mum❤️”

“In loving memory of a cherished mother, whose kindness, wisdom, and boundless love illuminated our lives. She will forever remain in our hearts.

I truly can not express my pain and grief with your going, I have…Read More

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